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Hello from a Cisgendered Male

Started by Pundit, September 28, 2010, 08:54:42 PM

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Pundit

Hello! :D

I'm Pundit (I'd rather not give out my real name just yet). I'm a cisgendered male from New Jersey. I'm a senior in high school. And no, I don't believe I'm transgendered in any way.

You might be asking why I'd join a forum for transgendered people, then. Honestly, I just really like transgendered people. I know this is a stereotype, albeit a positive one, but transgendered people are some of the nicest people I've ever met. And I really like how they're usually so tolerant of others (since they know what it's like to be discriminated against). So, yeah, I randomly came across these forums, and I got the idea to join, since I'm active on a good many forums. I hope you all would welcome a cisgendered person? Maybe there are some others; I don't know, I haven't really looked around yet.

So, yeah, hi!
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Ayaname

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Miniar




"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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April Dawne


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Octavianus

Hi Pundit, welcome to one of the few places where we are the minority :D
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Fencesitter

Welcome Pundit!

Quote from: Pundit on September 28, 2010, 08:54:42 PM
And I really like how they're usually so tolerant of others (since they know what it's like to be discriminated against).

That is, until you really get to know us. :icon_twisted:  ^-^
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Janet_Girl

Hi Pundit, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 3600 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. :icon_hug:

And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS )


Hugs and Love,
Janet
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Elijah3291

Always happy to hear about an accepting friendly cisgender person. :)
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Azalie

Welcome! Good to see there are more of your accepting kind out there! Me being a cis...gender was it? lol not too used to these formalities yet. anyway, welcome to the party!
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Pundit

Thanks for the friendly welcomes, everyone. :) You all pass so well! :D I'm surprised at how many FTMs there are. I thought MTF was more common? Maybe I need to update my statistical knowledge on that. ::) Hehe.
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Robert Scott

Welcome aboard

There is a whole thread devoted to the subject of more mtf than ftm's .... there's a big discussion as to why that is ... you should check it out
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Nathan.

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rejennyrated

Well to be honest many of us maintain that once we are, as I am, decades past completion of our treatment we become cisgendered people with a transgendered past. That, rightly or wrongly is how I have seen myself for the last 26 or so years anyway. Many of us just come here to join in and offer the occasional bit of advice.

But I am being picky and forgetting my manners. Welcome to the group! I hope you will have a lot of fun and enjoy our company. Janet has already done the official moderator bit so I'll just confine myslef to saying I look forward to reading your contributions.

Now lets wait and see how many people try to chat you up... LOL ;)
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Jillary Woolen Xσx

how extremely exciting to have Cis friends hop aboard!
Welcome to Susan's!!
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pebbles

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April Dawne

JoC I must say, I am always struck by how beautiful and natural you look! =]

~*Don't wanna look without seeing*~

~*Don't wanna touch without feeling*~




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Jillary Woolen Xσx

April!!
Thank you Lovely :)
I've been feeling pretty good lately :)
I'm glad its showing :D
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Pundit

Thanks again for the welcomes, everyone. Gosh, my intro thread is so popular! You all flatter me so much! :laugh:

rejennyrated: I understand what you're saying. There has to be some sort of word to describe whether someone was born the right gender or not, though. And I guess cisgender is the term for that. The words male and female are too vague, since one can be born male but feel female, and vice versa. The way I see it is that we're all human beings; some of us are unfortunate enough to have been born the wrong gender, and are even more unfortunate to be discriminated against and often treated as a joke in our society. I sympathize with you all; I have some "kinks" of my own that aren't accepted by society.

And haha, many people are going to chat me up? :laugh: I guess I should've thought that, but part of me also wondered if transsexual people prefer the company of other transsexual people. I guess I was wrong for thinking like that.

JoC: I gotta say, you look so much like a woman. Seriously, if I saw you on the street passing by, the thought that you may have been born physically male wouldn't have crossed my mind at all. A lot of people seem to pass well on this site, though. The vast majority, in my opinion.
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