My partner had a complete hyst. in late July, so a little over 4 months ago. Libido, orgasms, etc are all back to normal. His urinary stuff took about a week to straighten back out (frequency, etc.). Mental effects were the most adverse for him. He is still a little spacy at times, and has episodes of feeling "not like himself". Honestly it was a little scary for both of us at first, but he is slowly but surely getting his energy back, and feeling more like himself every day. Having a support system is super important.