So I contacted the two trans-friendly health clinics in my area (Chase-Brexton in Baltimore and Whitman-Walker in DC) looking to get a T prescription and neither take my insurance. Instead I set up an appointment with an ob/gyn who has supposedly prescribed T before and takes my insurance, but the receptionist said my insurance might not cover everything. Right after I made the appointment I felt okay about it, but now I don't know what to do. I really don't want to go to an ob/gyn sit in the waiting room, get misgendered etc. because I know it will make me feel like ->-bleeped-<- and want to have an anxiety attack. plus my insurance might not cover all of the costs so it could end up costing me a buttload of money anyway.
I'm thinking about making an appointment with Whitman-Walker and paying for most of it out of pocket. Whitman-Walker is specifically an lgbt clinic, so I'd feel safer going there. My therapist would also be more comfortable with me going there, and I have some savings so I won't be completely broke if I do that, but I don't know if that's a stupid idea or not.
Has anyone else had to pay out of pocket to get bloodwork/labs done? Was it expensive? I just feel really frustrated and confused about what to do.