Quote from: Shayne on December 21, 2010, 09:53:14 AM

2. I feel naked in most girl's clothing and high heels are the work of the devil.

No such thing as too black. :3 

No one could figure out why I said I felt safer in a bed sheet than a dress or heels. It was because a dress felt naked and a sheet at least covered you.  Toga party anyone?

I agree on the black too. black jeans, dress shirts, ties, t shirts etc. I do have some color too tho...navy blue like.

1.  Gender isn't much of an issue with me, so yeah, I find T girls as attractive as anyone else.  Honestly, little things like hair color would be more important to me than cis/trans when it came to dating.

2.  I've tried a number of different styles over the years ranging from frumpy to over the top trying to find something I felt right in.  I found a number of things that I look good in, but it's always felt like dressing up a doll.  It was really more of a social connection thing, and I never actually felt associated with my body or appearance.  When I wear men's clothing, I feel like I actually can see myself in my reflection, which is an oddly wonderful feeling.  I guess this is a fairly long-winded answer to your question, but yes, I do feel more comfortable in just about any men's clothing than any women's styles.

If a girl is cute, she's cute, regardless of being a trans girl or not.

I sometimes wear women's clothes for kicks. Skirts and dresses and all that jazz. I get an adrenaline rush from it ("Oh my god! Haha! They see a woman in a dress, but if they knew, oh, if they knew..."), and I get a slight thrill from looking at women's underwear as well (like I'm doing something very forbidden). It's just that "oohh, I can do forbidden stuffz!!" type of thrill.
I don't feel that way about the men's section, though.

1. Have you ever found t-girls attractive and, would you ever date one?

Yes, definitely. I've found a lot of them attractive. And I would totally date one. Of course it would take some getting used to, since I have only dated cis-males so far, but I really would try that.

2. How does it feel to wear guy's clothing vs. girls clothing?
I've never really worn what could be considered girls clothing... but it feels much more accurate to wear guy's clothing. To me. Yep.

1. I'm pretty sure I'm with my "The One" so this is a tough question for me to answer. Hypothetically speaking, I could probably date anyone if the feelings were right, man or woman, cis- or transgendered. But for the most part, I do consider myself a heterosexual transman.

2. I've always preferred raking through the boys and mens racks, even as a kid. I was always jealous of the boys at school because they got to wear such cool clothes, and I had to wear girly stuff. When I hit fourteen I just started buying men's shirts and pants, and it stuck ever since. Why? I guess I like the way I look and feel. Woman's clothing may be very pretty and fashionable, but I like seeing them on the ladies. Not me.

1. I am attracted to women but do not find trans-women attractive therefore I could not date one

2. In guys clothes I finally feel myself. They give me confidence and I feel masculine in them. I also find them to be way more comfortable. Pre Transition I couldn't wait to get my tight jeans and tight shirt off, now I am totally kewl chillin' around the house in my jeans and t-shirt.

1. I'm attracted to generally everybody (If like their personality, we click, gender stuff kind of flies out of the window), so, yea, I could date a transwoman.

2. I much prefer men's clothes on a day-to-day basis. I'm extremely dysphoric about my thighs/butt/hip area, and my chest so if girl's clothes accentuate them I don't like it. That cuts a pretty big swath through the clothes that are available for women. Plus, I've seen pictures of me with generic women's clothes on- not pretty. Women's clothes are a bit too "loud" in the colour/pattern department, and they fit as tight as gloves in most cases from what I've seen of fashion. If I'm going full-out drag queen, though, I kind of like it because I'm not really connecting to myself. My drag queen moments are more like I'm dressing up a doll than dressing up myself. In those moments, I do like very "loud" dresses.

Men's clothes are my preferred type of clothing to wear because they are all pretty monotone in terms of colour, at least where I get them. That helps because I don't like having a lot of bright, chaotic colours in what I wear unless I want something to be very bright (which is where accessorizing comes in). They are also perfect because they are very forgiving when it comes to my weight. I have almost always felt skinnier and more handsome in men's clothes than women's. They just fit better, and make me feel happier with myself.

1 I would and have dated one

2 Cant remember the last time i wore womens clothes but then why would i? i'm male

1. No, because I've realized/admitted that I'm only into guys. There are plenty of beautiful transgirls, but there's zero sexual attraction for me. Exactly how I feel about cis girls.

2. Depends. Pants-wise, I'm still struggling to find men's jeans that fit right. As far as tops, though, I cringe even thinking about wearing girly stuff.
I live in mostly band shirts, button up and jackets so...I'm pretty set.

1. Yes and Yes

2.  Most of my clothes are gender netural or female clothing so N/A to that.

1. I'm not attracted to women at all, so no. But there are a lot of damn handsome transguys out there. So, good job, bros. *two thumbs up* 

2. I've always, even as a little kid, felt terribly embarrassed and humiliated by being forced to wear girl's clothes. I've felt humiliated and like a big jackass as an adult when I've had to wear women's clothes. I feel really confident dressed up and with a tie on, which is new for me because I've always been a strictly cargo pants & band shirt kind of person.

Quote from: KillBelle on December 18, 2010, 03:17:01 PM
Ok so hey guys, i hope i dont offend anyone by what i am going to be posting next. I dont know many transgendered men and every time i have ever ran into one...i've always felt too shy to ask.

1. Have you ever found t-girls attractive and, would you ever date one?

2. How does it feel to wear guy's clothing vs. girls clothing?

1.  I have seen some beautiful t-girls and I would date one.   Girls are girls to me regardless of if they're trans or not. 

2.  Guy's clothing is way more comfortable and makes me feel more covered up then girl's clothing.  I do like girl's clothing sometimes, though.  The clothes are usually nicer in appearance than male clothing.  Neither feels truly right, though.

1.  maybe
2. it feels awesome

Quote from: KillBelle on December 18, 2010, 03:17:01 PM
Ok so hey guys, i hope i dont offend anyone by what i am going to be posting next. I dont know many transgendered men and every time i have ever ran into one...i've always felt too shy to ask.

1. Have you ever found t-girls attractive and, would you ever date one?

2. How does it feel to wear guy's clothing vs. girls clothing?

1. I am attracted to female/woman-identified people. Transwomen are female/woman-identified people (unless otherwise expressed. For example those who identify as women, but their sex as neither female nor male). So yes, I would.

2. I'm probably the wrong person to ask as I've never really worn girl's clothing. The only times were sometimes on special occasions my mother would occasionally force me to wear a dress. As I got older that became rare. I've always just felt more comfortable in "guy's" clothing, and part of it to is that I hate tight clothing and women's clothing tends to be tight by my standards. Also I dislike the feeling of the cut of most of their clothing. Generally I feel like women's clothing restricts movement and makes me feel claustrophobic.

Edit: crap, just realised this topic is from 2010. People need to stop gravedigging. I feel like I'm not answering a question that is relevant to anyone anymore when like 2 years have passed lol

Quote from: KillBelle on December 18, 2010, 03:17:01 PM
Ok so hey guys, i hope i dont offend anyone by what i am going to be posting next. I dont know many transgendered men and every time i have ever ran into one...i've always felt too shy to ask.

1. Have you ever found t-girls attractive and, would you ever date one?

2. How does it feel to wear guy's clothing vs. girls clothing?

1) yes, I even had this experience where I was out with a friend and went like "wow shes hot" and then got over to her and notice she was trans.

2) guy clothes is normal for me, girl clothes depends, I can wear parts of girl clothes cause I dont mind if my favorite shoes/socks or whatever tend to be made for female, but dressing all up in girls clothes is like crossdressing in my mind.

1) I'm attracted to men, but I do think certain transgirls are attractive, wouldn't date one though because, again, attracted to men.
2) I like wearing male clothing a lot more....a lot of feminine clothing is designed to accentuate certain female anatomy, which makes me feel like a slab of meat to be judged based on it. Even my mom tells me I should wear clothes that show more skin because I'm a "young lady." I mean, really? Why should females be expected to show more skin if they don't want to or feel comfortable doing so? Even feminine t-shirts are usually made of that thin material that shows every curve or budge the body has. Sorry, I'm rambling. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I constantly feel judged or exposed and uncomfortable in female clothing, to me it's humiliating because I don't exactly have a show worthy body by neither standard. Males aren't expected to accentuate their upper anatomy as much and aren't expected to show off as much skin, so I'm much more comfortable in male clothing.

Yes and yes on T-girls and as far as women's clothing, I haven't worn anything made for women / girls since I was a very small child. The one piece of clothing I wore as an adult that was specifically made for women was sports bras.

1. Sure, why not?

2. Women's clothing makes me feel like a fish out of water. It makes me feel like I want the ground to swallow me. It's so uncomfortable. I was relieved when I found out what trans* was.

1) Definitely
2) Also definitely