Quote from: Melody Maia on February 23, 2011, 11:39:15 PM
Ok, here's the thing. Women go through this pain because they know they will have a baby at end of it. A brand new person. Here this poor man has absolutely nothing to look forward to except the experiment stopping. What's the point?
This is what I am thinking.
A few years ago, there was a short lived fashion for men to wear some heavy lump, so they could experience the discomfort of carrying a baby in utrio. This didn't really catch on here in the UK, but I do recall seeing one man doing this and complaining of a very sore back. I pointed out to him that a preganant woman also carried two rather large, engorged breasts. If he really wants to experience the child birth experience, he should have those as well.
Incidently, that guy, I hear, still sufferes back problems.
The point is, men are not designed to give birth. Women are.
espo made the point that women have died in child birth, throught history. That is true, but grossly exagerated. It's a matter of simply statistics. If women were dying in huge numbers, there wouldn't be any women left.
Most deaths in child birth happened because of purpural feaver, which was largely caused by the insistance of early medics, that they should supervise child birth and midwives were habitually accused of witchcraft and burned to death. This continued until a man by the name of Ignaz Semmelweis suggested that men should wash their hands before attending women in child birth. His reward for this outrage was to be tricked into a mental institution where he was beaten to death. It was only later that Pasteur and Lister adopted his work.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ignaz_Semmelweishttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Louis_Pasteurhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Lister,_1st_Baron_ListerI worked, for a short period in a maternity hospital, which was more a baby factory, and witnessed 11 births. I also attended women, pre and post natal. I fully appreciate what they have to go through. But the fact that they do and do repeatedly, indicates that their bodies are designed for this.
There are, undoubtedly, some women, who will dutifully answer the summons of a man, to carry and produce a child. However, I doubt these are very many. With only a couple of exceptions, the limiting factor that is cited by all women, on how often, or if they become pregnant, is how many children they believe they can deal with as independant entities.