Was being all nice to me and told me I made the best pizza shes ever had... until she found out my name and that i was a girl. After I walked away she told an employee of mine that she thought she was talking to a guy the whole time. My employee told her thats what I wanted, and she replied with "THATS EFFING DISGUTING." Then of course the employee had to come blurt that out, infront of everyone at work. Not gunna lie, I was embarrassed, and that did really hurt me for a little while.

Ugh, skank. Some people just lack the decency to act like human beings to other people just because they're at work and can't do anything about it, it's like the internet.

And what that employee did was also rude, I would have told him or her to keep their mouth shut. But couldn't you be stealth at work even if you're legally female?

Meh, the response of the employee was ->-bleeped-<-ty as well, should have just stated that it was none of the woman's goddamn business.

Sorry this happened to you.

Quote from: ~RoadToTrista~ on March 08, 2011, 09:30:52 PM
Ugh, skank. Some people just lack the decency to act like human beings to other people just because they're at work and can't do anything about it, it's like the internet.

And what that employee did was also rude, I would have told him or her to keep their mouth shut. But couldn't you be stealth at work even if you're legally female?

Ya i totally agree, in a way, im glad i was at work, cuz honestly i dont think i would have been able to hold back.

And i cant be stealth at work because even though im out to everyone i work with, theres so many "regular" customers that come in that know me from 4 plus years ago, that would probably give me away. Theres a few other small reasons as well. Im going to quit this job when i start T and find a new job where i can be stealth.

And yes that was rude of her. Shes not one of my favorite people. Almost anyone else that I work with would have stuck up for me, but of course thats the way it works.

Quote from: Caleb. on March 08, 2011, 09:42:17 PM
Meh, the response of the employee was ->-bleeped-<-ty as well, should have just stated that it was none of the woman's goddamn business.

Sorry this happened to you.

Ya i completely agree, but thanks man. We all face things like this sometime or another. It just sucks when it happens, people can be really rude.

Damn, man. I'm so sorry that happened to you, props on not ripping her head off though. You've got some damn good self-control.

Sorry that happened man, something ->-bleeped-<-ty happened to me at work today too.  I tried to get a lady to come to check out at my register but she was looking at me wierd and said "not with you" with a frowny face.  The cashier who checked her out told me the woman said she didn't know what I was but she didn't want someone like me checking her out. 

N. Chaos- Thanks dude, but trust me I really really had to hold back!

Andy- Im sorry dude, thats horrible. I just dont understand whats so messed up in peoples heads that they can be like that. i just dont get it.

I wish I could get a permit to punch just one person each day with no repercussions.  I think it could be useful.

I'm very non-violent.  I've only hit one person (well, other than my brother!) in my life - a girl.  And she deserved it completely.  (She also left me alone after that, which was the relationship I desired with her)  But despite not actually hitting people, I still would take the permit - people like this customer (and the employee) deserve a good slap.

For the record, I wouldn't go around hitting women unless you're willing to deal with the angry strange men who witness it.



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Thats pretty crappy from the customer and the fellow employee.

Yes,didn't you know! its true trans people can't make good pizza!

This is so ubelievable it sick!

Maybe she was worried that the pizza would have trans fats?

I think Slanan's onto something here, I wanna sign up for this permit too. Granted, I'd exceed my limit without a doubt. I'm the complete opposite, I'm an incredibly violent person and always have been. Broke a girl's kneecap in seventh grade, almost killed a guy in eight. My track record is spottier than a friggin' Dalmation.

These people are so odd. I understand peoples pain but we should feel sorry for the idiots as well. Nervously looking over their shoulder for the rest of their miserable lives. Oh my God Has my <take away food> < restaurant dinner>  <cup of coffee>  < hair been washed or styled> <etc>  by one of THOSE people.

Never ever ever get upset or offended by people making these remarks, laugh at them, even if you are furious. Laughter is far more taunting. Practice a few quips and keep them close. 

Sorry you people were insulted. I do know how it feels. But we are bigger than them.

Hugs

Cindy

Slanan- Im also a very non violent person. Ive only been in one fight and he really deserved it. But that is a good idea, but i would just want a permit to give them a piece of mind. I dont think id actually hit them (even though i might really want to!)

Arch- haha that was good one, i got a good laugh.

Cindy James- Your right. I would rather be the bigger person anyway, it feels better at the end of the day having a clean conscience too. Thats a good idea, ill have to try the laugh method next time.

Quote from: Slanan on March 08, 2011, 11:58:58 PMI've only hit one person (well, other than my brother!) in my life - a girl. 

Quote from: N.Chaos on March 09, 2011, 01:28:03 AM
Broke a girl's kneecap in seventh grade,

Hitting girls.

Girls can hit girls.  That's within The Rules.

and hey, if customers were real cool people who were just a delight to be around, pretty much the best people on earth and all that - then I wouldn't have to pay you good money to work with them.

Damn man, perspective! You work where retail and the food industry collide, if thats the worst thing that happens it's a good week 

JMO, but it sounds like the girl just felt rejected and reacted badly, no?

Quote from: Tracey on March 09, 2011, 05:35:01 PM
JMO, but it sounds like the girl just felt rejected and reacted badly, no?

Rejected how? I dont think i understand