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Plenty of fish rejection :(

Started by Elsa.G, March 26, 2011, 07:44:23 PM

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Elsa.G

so i made an account on plenty of fish and everything goes very well until i mention the fact that im trans, this ever happen to anyone?
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wannalivethetruth

Whats every fish?? And yes, on mocospace, whenever i"d mention i was trans, the guy wouldnt reply anymore...:(. oh well!!! :)
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Sarah Louise

I'm assuming that Plenty of Fish is a dating site, I can understand why being trans could be an issue.  Why does it surprise you?
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Fate

its hardly ever a good idea to say to someone you just met who dosent know you that well
i blame the media/comedy for what they present trans people are, there seems to be assumptions or even a sterotype when trans are when being metioned
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Pinkfluff

Nope, it doesn't happen to me, because I never go on dating sites. The way people are, that kind of thing is, unfortunately, to be expected. Hopefully you'll get lucky and find a decent person out there.
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Debra

yeah it's hard. There is hope though, there are people out there who understand. Hang in there

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Janet_Girl

It does not surprise me in the least bit.  Plenty-O-Fish is a Christian based dating site.  Even notice the little fishies in their logo.  Most of them are even if they do say so.

I have been on a couple of them but I dropped them.  Maybe after SRS.  Although I already do have someone in my life.
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Tammy Hope

the ownership might profess Christian intent but in my experience the membership has no such illusions.

there are SOME there who are "looking for a good Christian" but there are also some rather...less reputable sorts.

I have an account, though I've no intention of meeting anyone and say something similar in my profile, just basically as a test of passability.

I'm certain if i ever told anyone i was trans they would flee, but i don't because i'm not going to actually meet anyone.
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Elsa.G

there was a guy who was ok with it at first but changed his mind sometime later, he said he wants a real woman
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V M

Maybe you should try one of the trans dating sites like trandgenderdate.com... If you do a search for transgender dating I'm sure you'll find several others
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long.897

I'd recommend against trans dating sites.  From what others have told me, 99% of those using them are pervy ->-bleeped-<-s looking to fulfill a fantasy. 

I tried okcupid.com for a bit; wasn't really interested in dating at the time, and was using it more for friends, but it seems like there are plenty of transfriendly people. 
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