With my gear set up as it is, I get minimal physical stimulation. Anyone have any tips? I've read around that the harness is important, and that having one that rides lower is helpful. But...I'm so broke (student), I can't afford a new harness (I currently have a kinda jankety one, but it gets the job done), and I don't think I can tinker with it too much.

I don't want to use anything that vibrates, I want something a little more organic in mechanism, if you know what I mean.

I'm pre-T, if that makes a difference.

Does anyone have any tips? Even if those "tips" are harnesses that are good, that would be helpful for when I have more money.

Can you sew at all? My friend made me a packer harness that worked really well and only cost less than $10 to make. Just bought some thick elastic band and some needle and thread. One piece to make the circle that goes around the waist and then two more pieces for the leg holes. Sure it probably won't last more than a few months before you have to re-sew it but it's cheap.

Mine broke though and I suck at sewing so you do have to be decent. If not I hear a lot of good things about the Spareparts joque harness. Don't have personal experience with it because I'm too broke to try it yet as well

I got my strap-on for around 20$ on amazon. Of course, it's blue and tiny (for my MTF partner) and kinda makes me think 'whale dick' lol... But was well worth it for 20$. I can easily fashion it to take a larger dildo later on, too.

http://www.amazon.com/Pipedreams-Fetish-Fantasy-Beginner-Strap/dp/B000KBX92A/ref=sr_1_7?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1301023194&sr=1-7
That's what I got. Not very organic looking, huh? Lol.. But like I said, it can be made to accommodate a larger dinger, they sell rubber O rings at hardware stores for under 5$..

Strap-ons are generally expensive, from a students perspective (I'm a student also ;.; ) so finding one that fits well.. looks good.. and can pleasure you too, is pretty much impossible on a budget. That's why I settled for good ol' whale dick lol!

As far as physical stimulation for you, that's all in what gets you off, be it vibration, penetration, or pressure and rubbing. Once you figure which one of those gets you, from there you just need to figure out how to incorporate it into your strap-on that you have now. Some sewing will be involved, but it won't be complicated.

Hope this helped >_<

@Andrew Alexander: My question was more aimed at harnesses for play, not for packing. But thanks for the tip, I actually have been looking into better ways to pack as well

@Morgan: lol, "whale dick." I've had a neon pink dick for 6 months since it was the cheapest. Oh, the college budget haha. Thanks for the link, I actually bought a similar harness tonight for a good deal, hoping I can mod it a little. Thanks

Anyone have tips on modifying dicks/harnesses to, erm, rub the right way?

Well if the one you ordered is similar in construction to mine, then you could attach a third strap going right between your legs that could hold something tightly in place against you. You'd have to be pretty crafty. I personally would take any kind of strong non-stretch material, something like the excess strap on a backpack, or a cloth belt, and sew it on the bottom of the triangle shape pad thinger, and then sew it to the back strap. Make sure to take care with measurements and maybe take an inch off for added pressure. Then all that's left is attaching something strategically to the strap.. But what? I guess try a few different things, there are many house hold objects that are pervertable and easy to clean/replace... Get creative, lol. This is where a vibrator would probably be best, but that's just my taste.

The cons of this idea that I can imagine is comfort. That strap sewed on would be sure nice in one spot but.. It would also most inevitably wedge itself other places lol! If you're REALLY crafty you can fashion that strap to fit more like a jock strap and split so that it attaches to the two straps that go at the top of your thighs. Honestly, just put your strap-on on, take a look in the mirror and try and figure what would fit well, be comfortable, and still apply pressure.

This sex stuff sure is tricky business :/

Sorry Milly I only meant to use my packer harness as an example thinking that if you could find some heavy-duty elastic type material you could make your own for play with the same idea. Also the spareparts joque harness is a harness for play. Hope the one you ordered works out for you