Jane it sounds like you both handled the siyuation quite well. It is hard though isn't it?

I met a guy the other night who could be Johnny Depp's double. Needless to say, since I adore Depp, actually every bit of his existence, my knees were weak the whole night! Found out he had a girlfriend but he is such an intelligent, sweet guy who likes art and forensics. heehee...weird, but that is an awesome combination for me.

Quote from: bethw on April 15, 2011, 06:18:09 PM
Jane it sounds like you both handled the siyuation quite well. It is hard though isn't it?

As I said to a friend last night it's horrible to be in this limbo state, even if a man I was attracted to was attracted to me I wouldn't be able to do anything about it as gay sex leaves me stone cold, i've no problem with gay people but it's definately not for me.
Since coming out & telling people i've found i'm much more emotional than before, it's as if i've dropped the macho act & allowed my feminine side free reign, I cry when i'm happy now not just when i'm miserable, I'm able to admit to myself that i'm attracted to men & I go all girly over a pretty dress or shoes.
I love this new me as it feels so natural & can't wait till my body catches up with my brain

It sounds like we could be sisters Jane,
Hugs your sis
Beth

Oh yeah. I used to be male (or so I thought) interested in females. Now? ? ? I fantasised myself sexually with a man, look at women and think that top/dress/skirt look great on her I want it/wish it'd work on me, and damnit she's hot I wish it was me rather than she's hot I want to sleep with her. Oh, did I mention I have develop this massive crush on my best guy friend.

Oh I want him damnit!!!

I understand completely Keroppi . It might be a little dangerous with your best guy friend but who knows? Maybe he feels the same way about you.
Hugs
Beth

Quote from: Valeriedances on April 14, 2011, 11:14:27 PM
I'm just popping in to say I l o v e the topic title!!!

Uh oh He's cute... heehee. I'm sure I'm going to be using that in my head tomorrow while at work.

Uh oh, there goes another one.

Mmm hmm. Becomes pandemic quite quickly, doesn't it?

It sure does. Yikes!! maybe too quickly.
Hugs
Beth

"Uh oh He's cute... heehee. I'm sure I'm going to be using that in my head tomorrow while at work. "

It will probably be one of these "Don't think about Pink Elephants" situations where you can't stop doing exactly that!

I've decided it's not a question of whether you are straight, bi or gay. It's more like are you orientated towards men, women or both, regardless of how you thought you were orientated before sorting out your identity. 

The orientation doesn't change, just the label describing it.  Damn all labels anyway!!

Labels?  we don't need no stinking labels.
Valerie;
Now you know how I felt. It's tough isn't it? The worst part was we went back for lunch today and he wasn't there. I actually missed him. Oh boy. What next?

Quote from: Valeriedances on May 11, 2011, 10:55:23 AM
I just sat in a 2 hour meeting next to one of those cuties. It was tough...

I KNOW the feeling.

I have an hour staff meeting every week with a major hunk in our office.

It would be a lie if I said I didn't look forward to seeing how he looks, what he's wearing, if he got a haircut, if he's got fresh stubble...

Woo Hoo Val;
You go girl!!!!!!!
Beth

I have done that thought what he would be like its just a normal reaction on seeing (in my case ) a younger fit guy you do look a lot more when your a girl just have fun xxxx

That whole switch-up thing is so damn weird, and kind of scary at times. I'm right in the middle of that currently, I thought I was attracted to only girls for a while, admitted to being bi, and recently realized that my interest/attraction to girls has been decreasing and then more or less just poofed entirely. I can still appreciate a girl's attractiveness, but there's zero sex drive there. It's so weird.

And DAMNIT those moments are infuriating, aren't they? I was looking for D&D books with my friend Chase and the clerk was effing adorable. I couldn't figure out what books we needed because the guy was too distractingly cute X_X

I go to pieces sometimes when I see a really fit guy, I think wow I want him yummy scrummy.

Yummy indeed Chloe!!!!
Hugs
Beth