Kia Ora, and thanks for all your responses so far.....
I guess from a Buddhist perspective [on a somewhat deeper level mind you] for some gender diverse people when it comes to "gender identity", their philosophy it would seem is....
"Sabbe Dhamma Nalam Abhinivesaya !" "Nothing Whatsoever Should be Clung To!"
I remember when I was in the androgynous stage of my transition,[I lived there for around 16/18 months on HRT and dressed in male mode-be it somewhat unisexed] and like some of you have already mentioned, at times it could be most entertaining...

I'd go into a big department store and the following often happened...[even with my children tagging along-who didn't know of my HRT and gradual metamorphosis], But they seemed to get a real kick out of it though...
The first store assistant "Can I help you sir?" then a while later another assistant[same store] "Can I help you ma'am ?" ...On leaving the store at the check out, the check out assistant "Thank you have a nice day "sir"!" to the first customer..."Have a nice day "Ma'am" !" to the second and when it's my turn "Have a nice day "?" !"...Nothing but a blank smile!
Some people were just to embarrassed to use pronouns for fear of offending me...So in a sense from the cisgender view point, androgynous looking people can be a real pain in the arrrrrrrrrrsssseee ....and cause for much confusion

and possibly stress especially when it comes to correct pronouns...
However it was when I had to use the public toilets/restrooms now that was a real eye opener...........

"The wonderful wacky world of androgyny...Ah... those were the days!"

Metta Zenda