Hi Valerie,
May of 2010 I eliminated the T production. In June of 2010 I had the T tested and it was 9 ng/dl. My endo continued the estradiol at doses prior but stopped spiro, progesterone, and Avadort. She asked me, "How is your libido?" I replied, "What is libido?" She wanted to give me small doses of T but that did not appeal to me. She told me to take 50mg of over-the-counter DHEA. In March of 2011 my T was up to 26 ng/dl.
I have chatted with other endo's and they told me the libido resurfaces with T about 30.
I am 56 and still have a low libido but it is higher than last year.
I am sure your endo will give you a low dose of T if you want.
Maybe exercise will help naturally boost T and improve libido?
My E is much higher than yours (around 200); however, I would guess I take more E than you.