http://m.guardian.co.uk/science/2006/sep/18/medicineandhealth.china?cat=science&type=article

NOT ONLY WAS HE BORN WITH A F%{+ING PENIS, BUT THEN HE WAS LUCKY ENOUGH TO BE GIVEN A TRANSPLANT OPPORTUNITY. AND ON TOP OF THAT, THE TRANSPLANT WAS F%#+ING SUCCESSFUL AND HE HAS THEM CUT IT OFF!!!!!!!! I AM SO ANGRY RIGHT NOW IT'S PROBABLY A GOOD THING THAT THEY DIDN'T IDENTIFY HIM IN THE ARTICLE AND I DON'T OWN ANY FIREARMS.

SERIOUSLY I would give anything in the entire world to even be given a chance at some ->-bleeped-<-ty surgery that attaches a flap of skin to my pelvis that doesn't even work. This man gets two functioning well-sized penises in his life and manages to cut them both the f%#+ off. UGH!!!!!!!

Having a dead man's dick would get to me as well, but it's better than not having one at all! What the hell? I normally say 'to each their own' but... Wow. That just kills me =/

Quote from: TroyTransistor on August 09, 2011, 03:13:50 PM
Having a dead man's dick would get to me as well, but it's better than not having one at all! What the hell? I normally say 'to each their own' but... Wow. That just kills me =/

I really don't think I would think about it like that. I'm an organ donor on my drivers license so that when I die, my body parts can be used to improve the length and/or quality of life for someone. I wouldn't be freaked out by it at all, it's simply a human act of decency. It's not as if the donor needed it anymore.

I know I would feel the same...it wouldn't feel mine...plus, what if that person who was the donor had a history of being a rapist? I mean, that would seriously screw with my brain. It's like having part of a third person in bed with you when you're having sex. I would be psychologically uncomfortable with it for sure.

To you Nygeel I would say that just like a gun doesn't kill neither does a penis rape.  I've all about the person controlling it.

I can understand where the guy in the article is coming from.  Every penis looks different.  If the new one didn't look like his and he was trying to use it in such an intimate act like before I can see the problem ... Creepy ...

Ryan I can also see your point of view.  However keep in mind having a penis doesn't work people happy.  If that was the case 52% of the population would be bouncing around thrilled to be alive instead side eyeing every cliff they come across.

It would be nice to have a penis but it doesn't have to make or break your life.

I'm going to say penis a few more times.  penis penis penis

Having a dead man's penis would weird me out. I don't know where it's been, so I'd most likely pour rubbing alcohol on it and then set fire to it because of some vague memory of fire working as a stterilizer.





...you got a laugh from that mental image, right? I just wish I'd grow one, from my own flesh. I'd wake up and there it was, and no trace of that anything else had ever been there.

Quote from: Squirrel698 on August 09, 2011, 03:44:03 PM
To you Nygeel I would say that just like a gun doesn't kill neither does a penis rape.  I've all about the person controlling it.

I'm talking more about the psychological aspect. For example, would you want to own a gun that killed 300 infants? Probably not, at least not for any other reason than a conversation piece...which a penis usually isn't.

The man's decision made sense to me, I don't know if I'd want a piece of a dead person attached to me, just wouldn't feel like it was mine. I mean I've thought about the possibility of the future having penis transplants and I've got mixed feelings. I do have penis envy, it pisses me off, but I'm not sure I'd want someone else's to touch, I think it's because it just feels very intimate.

QuoteIt would be nice to have a penis but it doesn't have to make or break your life.

Au contraire mon frere...A penis is a major part of a man's life. I read somewhere about the priorities people put on different body parts...if they had to lose both legs, or both eyes, nearly everyone said "off with the legs!"

I believe that most men, if given the choice of losing both legs, or the penis, would again choose the legs. It's that important. At the very least, they'd think about it long and hard. (No pun intended)

Yes, having a "dead man's penis" would be disconcerting...but I'd be asking for some meds or therapy to help me work things out. (Also, it sounds like his wife had a problem with it. Maybe he should have gotten a 20 cm?)

Just out of curiosity, if you needed a lung transplant, would you feel like it's your lung... Or would you constantly feel like it's a dead man's lung? He isn't using it any more.
It mostly makes me angry because he rejected what a lot of guys would do a LOT for. Then again, it hasn't happened to me so I don't exactly KNOW how I'd react either.
I would do so much for the opportunity he had, and it's frustrating that he gave it up.

Quote from: TroyTransistor on August 09, 2011, 04:48:53 PM
Just out of curiosity, if you needed a lung transplant, would you feel like it's your lung... Or would you constantly feel like it's a dead man's lung? He isn't using it any more.
It mostly makes me angry because he rejected what a lot of guys would do a LOT for. Then again, it hasn't happened to me so I don't exactly KNOW how I'd react either.
I would do so much for the opportunity he had, and it's frustrating that he gave it up.

that's what i was trying to say. not that i can't possibly rationalize the guys actions at all, i can see his side. it's more about the opportunity being given and then wasted that id KILL for.

Quote from: TroyTransistor on August 09, 2011, 04:48:53 PM
Just out of curiosity, if you needed a lung transplant, would you feel like it's your lung... Or would you constantly feel like it's a dead man's lung? He isn't using it any more.
It mostly makes me angry because he rejected what a lot of guys would do a LOT for. Then again, it hasn't happened to me so I don't exactly KNOW how I'd react either.
I would do so much for the opportunity he had, and it's frustrating that he gave it up.

A penis you can see...a lung you cannot. "Out of sight, out of mind." And, it's not just the guy who has to deal with a "dead mans' erection"...the woman gets to have it inside of her...

Hmm ... I see a total opportunity in there somewhere - MTFs donating they're unwanted organs to FTMs who want them! Seems the operation was a success with this guy so why not take an unwanted organ from a living person? If it would indeed improve the quality of lives for both individuals, why not.

I don't think I would have a problem with a dead man's penis.  I'd get used to it, and after a year or so, it totally feel like a part of me.

Ryan, I think you need to calm down just a little   The guy's not trying to hurt trans people by removing the penis.  And we all know what it's like to want a part of our body to be cut off.  To me, him removing his penis that he was not comfortable with, would be just like a MTF removing her penis.  If it makes them happier.


On another note, I almost, possibly, doubt the story.  I mean, it did say that this was the first time ever that a penis transplant was made, and then only TWO weeks later he has it removed?!  That's awfully soon.  I mean, I would at least give it 6 months, and if I still was horrified at it, I would consider removing it.  And I don't even get how the wife had the biggest problem with it.  Two weeks after the surgery, he could have still been in the hospital recovery.  I doubt she'd like tried to have sex or anything with it yet.  And she knew what she was getting into when he had the surgery.
My point is, I do think there's a slight possibility that the whole isn't true.  And the truth is that the penis was rejected, but to cover that up and make it seem successful, they just said that the wife didn't like it.  I don't know, I'm not usually a conspiracist, but I guess tonight I am
And is two weeks even enough time to know for sure if it was successful?

Quote from: JohnAlex on August 10, 2011, 12:33:48 AM
I don't think I would have a problem with a dead man's penis.  I'd get used to it, and after a year or so, it totally feel like a part of me.

Ryan, I think you need to calm down just a little   The guy's not trying to hurt trans people by removing the penis.  And we all know what it's like to want a part of our body to be cut off.  To me, him removing his penis that he was not comfortable with, would be just like a MTF removing her penis.  If it makes them happier.


On another note, I almost, possibly, doubt the story.  I mean, it did say that this was the first time ever that a penis transplant was made, and then only TWO weeks later he has it removed?!  That's awfully soon.  I mean, I would at least give it 6 months, and if I still was horrified at it, I would consider removing it.  And I don't even get how the wife had the biggest problem with it.  Two weeks after the surgery, he could have still been in the hospital recovery.  I doubt she'd like tried to have sex or anything with it yet.  And she knew what she was getting into when he had the surgery.
My point is, I do think there's a slight possibility that the whole isn't true.  And the truth is that the penis was rejected, but to cover that up and make it seem successful, they just said that the wife didn't like it.  I don't know, I'm not usually a conspiracist, but I guess tonight I am
And is two weeks even enough time to know for sure if it was successful?

first of all, i never implied that this man or his doctors had any affiliation with or even knowledge of trans issues. i never made the connection that they were somehow "acting against us" so please don't make that accusation. secondly, i wouldn't compare it to lower surgery for (normal) MTFs because this man campaigned to have the surgery done and then decided to reverse it so soon. why didn't he have to be put on a years-long waiting list to have his genitals corrected? why didn't he have to go through thousands of dollars worth of mental health professionals and doctors to get cleared for the surgery? his "wait time" from the moment he lost his penis to successful transplant was 8 months. the shortest amount of time any trans person who ever existed in the entire world had to wait to be "given" the proper genitals by modern medicine was 16.5 years. yes, there are transsexuals who regret transition post-op, but i place them with this man and cite inadequate psychological prep for the surgery. i'm so angry because everyone felt so strongly that this one man had such a RIGHT to have a penis that they rushed into an experimental surgery that he found out FOURTEEN DAYS LATER that he didn't even want. why do we have no right to our own correct genitals? also, this story is completely real. you don't fake a groundbreaking medical milestone on the bbc.... and i don't appreciate being told to calm down just because you disagree with me.

Quote from: Beth Andrea on August 09, 2011, 04:43:09 PM
Au contraire mon frere.

Avez-vous oublie soeur that I am a man and I don't have a typical penis and my life is not broken.  I know many cis-men feel the way you described about their genitalia but if they lost it, the majority would carry on.

In fact I do know several guys who fantasize about having their penis removed as a fetish act but that's neither here or there.

Quote from: RyanThomas on August 10, 2011, 02:18:10 AM
why do we have no right to our own correct genitals? also, this story is completely real. you don't fake a groundbreaking medical milestone on the bbc.... and i don't appreciate being told to calm down just because you disagree with me.

I believe JohnAlex is referring to the statement that implied you would like to add a shotgun wound to the man's current list of medical problems because he doesn't agree with YOU.  This I completely agree with.  You don't go around shooting people just because you would do it differently in the same situation.  The end result would be him dead and you in a prison cell still without the correct parts.   With a much less chance of ever getting them I might add.   

I know you were just saying it for dramatic effect but murder is never a good thing to say or suggest.    He had his reasons for removing it after 14 days the same as you have your reasons for wanting one so bad.  What he did had nothing to do with you and your dysphoria so don't take it personally.   

Quote from: Caseyy on August 10, 2011, 08:09:57 PM
But I personally would rather have a man who would physically suffer and possibly die of a painful infection get a penis before me.

I would feel the exact same way if he was going to follow through with the surgery.

Come on, donation of body parts always carried a risk of psychological rejection. I was going to bring up the guy who had his donated hand removed, but the article already did that. It's why people who receive face and arm transplants have therapy to go with it.
Anyway, the story is probably fake. It's China. Remember when the South Korean guy claimed to have cloned human embryos? These medical hoaxes happen.