Hi all,
maybe one more point of interest to mention.
I had sex (then still pre-op MtF) with a gay male. Well he was short, very short, say max 2 ½", so penetration was out, at least anal, I was there, right?!
BUT, it had not effect him having enough enjoyment to ejaculate, and that more then once.
So, is penetration the be and end all? In this case, his case, it was no issue. If I translate that back to the OP's question it might add some perspective and also to some of the other responses.
Enjoy,
Axelle