Quote from: Elsa.G on October 18, 2011, 01:45:51 PM
went shopping today with my cousin, we went into a Forever 21 which surprisingly was really packed with people even though its a tuesday morning. We picked out some articles of clothing and as we were going into the fitting rooms a group of about 3 girls were talking amongst themselves while they were looking at me and suddenly i heard "thats a guy" and some loud giggling, these girls were clearly about 23 or 24 and they were acting like children! As i walked into a fitting room one of them said "girls know girls, and thats a guy" i was so hurt that i couldnt help but cry a little while i was in the fitting room i did buy some clothes but now i dont feel like wearing them. I cant help but feel like a guy in a dress now after this. I thought girls were more compassionate but i guess it doesnt really matter who the person is they can still be jerks. It totally ruined my day

Where do you live anyways?

memphis

Quote from: Elsa.G on October 19, 2011, 12:36:59 AM
memphis

Do you know Fior? She does vids on youtube.

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on October 19, 2011, 12:48:24 AM
Do you know Fior? She does vids on youtube.

i do not actually, who is she?

Quote from: Elsa.G on October 19, 2011, 12:55:23 AM
i do not actually, who is she?

She does vids on youtube. a MtF...she counsels a lot of people. Seek her out...

That must have felt so shocking and hurtful.  Sorry.  I once had a group of children come up to me and start asking questions about my gender and it was quite upsetting even though they were just children.  When people are in groups they tend to get more judgmental of others because of the power they feel being in a group.  If that's you in your avatar, then I'm surprised that any girl or group of girls could clock you.  You look young and natural and pretty   Hormones and makeup and hair can go a long way.  How long have you been on hormones?

Quote from: Elsa.G on October 19, 2011, 12:55:23 AM
i do not actually, who is she?

ok definitely will do

Quote from: ZeldaHeart on October 19, 2011, 01:46:08 PM
That must have felt so shocking and hurtful.  Sorry.  I once had a group of children come up to me and start asking questions about my gender and it was quite upsetting even though they were just children.  When people are in groups they tend to get more judgmental of others because of the power they feel being in a group.  If that's you in your avatar, then I'm surprised that any girl or group of girls could clock you.  You look young and natural and pretty   Hormones and makeup and hair can go a long way.  How long have you been on hormones?

Ive been on them for about a year now, i get so incredibly annoyed having to take them everyday, its just unfair. And thank you so much, i guess a giveaway could be my voice and probably my body type. I have very broad shoudlers and arms and legs. Bugs the hell outta me!

Quote from: V M on October 18, 2011, 09:52:00 PM
Those girls sound like a gaggle of boppi bimbos who should be shopping at Forever in High School rather than a young adult woman's shop

Don't let their rude, ignorant and immature behavior spoil your day

Hugs

- Virginia

Indeed. To be fair to the girls I knew in middleschool and highschool, non were so trite and cruel. Its just a group of mean spirited jerks, at least one can take solace that they will surely hurt each other far more through rampant backstabbing than anyone outside their circle.

Were they white or black?

Btw, girls are catty.

Girls don't know ->-bleeped-<- about other girls.

Quote from: ~RoadToTrista~ on October 19, 2011, 09:33:59 PM
Girls don't know ->-bleeped-<- about other girls.

Is that so? I was the "gay best friend"  once apon a time and girls know plenty about each other. Including what makes an insecure girl tick...

Women are incredibly close creatures, now apply that in reverse...they are more brutal than men to each other.

Ugh, I knew you were gonna say something Mahsa, lol. >.< I just find it rly annoying when some girl talks about how "All women are like this" or "All women like so-and-so". It happens a lot.

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on October 19, 2011, 09:31:42 PM
Were they white or black?

Btw, girls are catty.

they were white, and they looked kinda like a typical valley bimbo. You know bleached blonde with a tan ALL 4 of them haha, 2 of them had their big fake boobs out and short shorts almost going up their butt. The others in skin tight mini dresses. Ugh im angry just writing this. Of course they also had that tennesse accent.

Im so sorry you experienced that dnt feel too bad though, girls tend to do this to each other more than other people i believe. Like in school i always got picked on for being "goth" haha i wasnt but many people thought i was. I know it must have felt terrible but who cares about them. They sounds like airheads to me. But luckily us girls are not all the same they are probably the minority of the bunch. Hey they might have been jealous

I had a similar experience here, but I could defend myself using my feminine voice. I did ask them if they could repeat what they just said as I didn't quite get it as it did sound to me like she was suspecting that I was a guy which couldn't be true at all. That made them running pretty fast.

Not sure what such girls want or do - I would see quite a lack of self esteem on their side that they feel the need to wreck someone else's day.

But let's face it: they wouldn't have talked about you if you wouldn't have looked great.

I would have been all up in her grill "Bitch no you did not!" *snaps fingers* 

Quote from: Rukia87xo on October 20, 2011, 01:00:55 AM

I would have been all up in her grill "Bitch no you did not!" *snaps fingers* 

I've done that to people who weren't even talking about me. Just my nature, I suppose.

As the others have said, just silly little girls.

Get to the important stuff. What did you buy?

Cindy

Quote from: Elsa.G on October 18, 2011, 01:45:51 PM
went shopping today with my cousin, we went into a Forever 21 which surprisingly was really packed with people even though its a tuesday morning. We picked out some articles of clothing and as we were going into the fitting rooms a group of about 3 girls were talking amongst themselves while they were looking at me and suddenly i heard "thats a guy" and some loud giggling, these girls were clearly about 23 or 24 and they were acting like children! As i walked into a fitting room one of them said "girls know girls, and thats a guy" i was so hurt that i couldnt help but cry a little while i was in the fitting room i did buy some clothes but now i dont feel like wearing them. I cant help but feel like a guy in a dress now after this. I thought girls were more compassionate but i guess it doesnt really matter who the person is they can still be jerks. It totally ruined my day

the younger ones tend not to be. I've actually had pictures taken of me in a public place like a store. I keep wondering if I'm going to turn up on People of Wal Mart

But that sort of stuff ALWAYS hits me from girls under 25. if the older ones think something they keep it to themselves.