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Started by Elsa.G, October 18, 2011, 01:45:51 PM

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Plague

Else you are beautiful; don't let CAT CU**s mess up you shopping Bic**s. Hay here's a taught next time say I'll get my big sisters to kick all your A**es Behachs!!!!!!!!! I'll do it to!! Love the little goth girl
Plague
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Morrigan

Whoa I thought I was the angriest goth girl around here, that takes the cake.

Threatening someone who popped your safe bubble doesn't serve you, it only proves that they got to you. That's possibly the very reaction they were coaxing out of you. Brandishing violence is a surefire way to get people out of your hair, Oh how often I think to resort to that, what with being 6'1" and crazily dressed. And how it works, but afterward there is little satisfaction. Now you've made a lasting memory in their minds about some disturbed trans girl, and they'll probably tell more people of their experience. It was an event they'd have probably forgotten if you ignored them.

Until the day that rude comments like this are considered hate crimes, you will have to rely on quick wit or sweet words to dispel the confrontation. You also have to take into consideration that you're not the only one being hurt here, your decisions have an effect on future opinions and legislations for LGBT individuals.
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Tammy Hope

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on October 20, 2011, 11:35:20 PM
Morrigan, people are observant and notice stuff.

Strongly disagree. If people around these parts were observant I'd have been kicked out of the restroom so many times i'd have been banned from the store by now.


I don't pass to the very observant, but outside my hometown I'm hardly ever obviously read.

I've actually had a security guard voluntarily direct me to the ladies room a couple of times.
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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Tammy Hope

QuoteOh don't tell me that, I'll have to go to Memphis, I'm so close right now!

I live about 80 miles from Memphis (although on my budget it might as well be 800 miles) and have 6 or 8 of the local drag performers on my Facebook friends. though I've never met any of them in person.

I'm always trying to network with T-people in my part of the country.
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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tekla

My guess is that those girls wouldn't give a ->-bleeped-<- what you thought of them, why do you place them in such an elevated position?
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Jenny_B_Good

Elsa,

How about posting pictures of yourself wearing the goods? We can then make positive comments to wash away the negative ones.

"Never fight fire with fire. It only creates ashes.... any fool knows you fight fire with water"

Love

Jenny
-       The longest journey a human must take, is the eighteen inches from their head to their heart    -
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tekla

Actually I'm still cracking up over: I thought girls were more compassionate.  Compared to what, the Waffen SS? 

I mean a guy might beat you up, might even beat you so bad you're crippled, or even dead.  But girls want to destroy their enemies socially, spiritually, morally and mentally.  Ask any girl whoever crossed the 3 Heathers, or whoever the 'popular' girls in their school were and you'll find someone who has much deeper emotional scars than any guy who just got beat up. 

I've had a bunch of male bosses who felt plenty of entitlement and privilege and were poster children for smug satisfaction, but I've never had a female boss in the corporate world who was not ruthless and vicious.  It was never enough that they didn't like you, they made sure everyone didn't like you.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Joeyboo~ :3

DGAF attitude is what everyone needs.
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Plague

Takla I was trying to help. butdid meanto come off so harsh love your comment some people need a good ass kicking????
Don't others feelings stupid cu***.
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: tekla on October 22, 2011, 12:59:39 PM
I've had a bunch of male bosses who felt plenty of entitlement and privilege and were poster children for smug satisfaction, but I've never had a female boss in the corporate world who was not ruthless and vicious.  It was never enough that they didn't like you, they made sure everyone didn't like you.

Had that happen to me before and it hurt really bad. Since the guys were homophobic and I was just starting out. The girl was the ultimate alpha male.

As someone who works in SF's Union Square cosmetic industry. I know my place.. Most transgirls in the industry know that we're just considered gay boys in dresses to the girls. It sucks...
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niamh

People can be mean no matter what the age or gender. People in their twenties can be as immature as any five year old. Just ignore them. You're stronger than that. I'm sure you looked fabulous in the clothes. Wear them with pride!  :)
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AndromedaVox

Elsa,

I'm so sorry this happened. People can be very cruel. When I first started transitioning, I had some girls laugh at me when I was at the mall and it really hurt. I even had my own endocrinologist ask me if I was planning on getting FFS without me even asking for his opinion. As a 16 year old, that was a very hard pill to swallow. I critiqued my face after that point and didn't look at myself the same way again. But soon after, I realized that I thought myself to be beautiful nonetheless, and passing shouldn't be a number one priority, rather, you should simply be comfortable in your own skin. If FFS would make you more comfortable, go for it, but do it for you, not for those rude bimbos.
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Morrigan

I can't agree that bimbo is a sexist term, even if it's generally used for females.

"Bimbo is a popular English language usage describes a woman who is physically attractive but is perceived to have a low intelligence or poor education."

I believe these girls do in fact have poor education.
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Keaira

Meh! You'll see trolls like that every now and then. Don't let the plastics get you down. I'll bet that their combined I.Q. was less than your shoe size.
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: Keaira on October 23, 2011, 12:45:30 PM
Meh! You'll see trolls like that every now and then. Don't let the plastics get you down. I'll bet that their combined I.Q. was less than your shoe size.

I think people are unfortunately gonna say what they are gonna say. I think until trans people reach the same mainstream acceptance as gays, some of us will have to deal with it.

Look go on this thread about Claudia Charriez:

http://www.battleforums.com/forums/chat-discuss/124644-claudia-charriez.html


And you'll see the "ugly", "she's a man", "he/she/it" comments are there and she looks like a model. It's just part of how people are. It's wrong... But I am afraid there's nothing we can do.

Part of being who you are and growing in your identity is experiencing trials and tribulations. It makes us stronger and makes us want to improve... It is part of growing as a human being.
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barbie

As a crossdresser, I am also sometimes clocked by girls. After trial and erros, I have learned how to present myself well as a woman. Keep in mind that presenting yourself as an opposite gender requires practice and trial and errors.

Some of my stories. I sometimes share women's rest rooom with other women who knows very well that I am a biological man. They just accept it after making some jokes.

I tended to wear very bold and unfashionable clothes, but later I learned a little bit how to wear properly as a woman. In my country, people can clock me by my height alone as women:


Nevertheless, people do not care so much about me in big cities where there are many tall young women. Still, I look very striking, attracting people attention around the world. I do not think my height is the major factor. For example, in Russia last week, in Poland a few weeks ago, and in Germany several months ago, people still looked at me while I ran outdoors, although there were a bunch of tall women in the street.

When I shop, I have no alternative but to talk with sales women, revealing my manly voice. Still, those ladies are very kind, and their last comment is like "wearing it prettily".

And, finally my photo at Nashville that an old woman in the street there took for me:



Of course, some drivers in the car there also paid attention to me.

Barbie~~
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Hermione01

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on October 23, 2011, 02:59:53 PM
I think people are unfortunately gonna say what they are gonna say. I think until trans people reach the same mainstream acceptance as gays, some of us will have to deal with it.

Look go on this thread about Claudia Charriez:

http://www.battleforums.com/forums/chat-discuss/124644-claudia-charriez.html


And you'll see the "ugly", "she's a man", "he/she/it" comments are there and she looks like a model. It's just part of how people are. It's wrong... But I am afraid there's nothing we can do.

Part of being who you are and growing in your identity is experiencing trials and tribulations. It makes us stronger and makes us want to improve... It is part of growing as a human being.

I read a few comments and had to stop, they are pathetic and hateful. She is definitely beautiful and the haters are insane.  :laugh:  People are weird.   :-\

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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: Hermione01 on October 24, 2011, 02:55:49 AM
I read a few comments and had to stop, they are pathetic and hateful. She is definitely beautiful and the haters are insane.  :laugh:  People are weird.   :-\

Well thats how people see us and I hate being called an "it" now I look nothing but "she". It took two and half years to get there, but here I am now.

But we all start out...two and half years ago and I look perfect(in my eyes)... One thing to understand about transition is that its an evolution. People are unfortunately going to say crap during the changing process.

8 months is just the beginning Elsa.G...don't cry. To quote Dan Savage, "It's gunna get better hun"

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Cindy

People who make such comments are not men. They are dysfunctional people who think that other people are for their gratification. Mostly they are so warped that they have never been with a woman in their lives and probably never will. Their comments are really directed at themselves. Inadequate and non-accepting. I think people with that attitude should go into yoga training, eventually they may get flexible enough to be able to give themselves oral sex. And no doubt most of them will worry about getting pregnant. ::) ::)

Intolerance begets Intolerance. Love begets Love.

JMHO
Cindy
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