Helping to run a pub, which is what I do and I love it. I'm a barmaid, a barman, a porter, a cellarman, a chambermaid,, a waiter, a waitress, a cleaning lady, a furniture mover, an odd job man, a seamstress, a cook. Both sexes equally, and I'm just the same me for any of them and nobody queries it. If they did I might even have to do another job which is very rare - a chucker-out.