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Why do some MTF's act like gay men?

Started by JenJen2011, October 26, 2011, 12:52:00 PM

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Miniar

Quote from: Jacelyn on November 06, 2011, 09:29:14 AM
Such questions showed that you are confusing truth as objective perception, whereas subjective perception is not truth. Objective perception is dependence on subjective perception. Objectivity simply means the subjective perception can be replicate in one or more persons. Subjective perception is also required for empirical evidence, but in the process of communication, the evidence in the form of words is not empirical, it only become empirical when replicated subjectively in the person who required the evidence. Thus the term subjective is intimately associated with truth, whereas objectivity is not independent of subjectivity in each individual.

I think you're confusing objective with subjective.
When something's objective, it's not influenced by personal feelings, interpretations, or prejudice; based on facts; unbiased: an objective opinion.
When something's subjective (such as in a subjective opinion or thought or experience) it belongs to the person (who has the opinion, thought or the experience) and is affected by that person.

As such, the term subjective is intimately associated with bias while objective is intimately associated with truth.

An objective opinion is repeatable not only in more than one person, but it's demonstrably accurate outside of subjective experience or perception. An objective opinion is based on research and factual information gathered through controlled parameters which includes the use of statistical analysis.

If you can not demonstrate that your definitions are "true" then they are your personal subjective opinions and thus it is dishonest to present 'em as factually or objectively true.



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Jacelyn

Quote from: Miniar on November 06, 2011, 10:56:10 AM
I think you're confusing objective with subjective.

You are confused because in reality there is no such thing as an objective view, it is but a collection of a number of similar subjective views that can be replicated in others.

QuoteWhen something's objective, it's not influenced by personal feelings, interpretations, or prejudice; based on facts; unbiased: an objective opinion.

No, if the object is about feelings, one cannot then associate the perception of feelings as not objective, if the subjective perception of the feelings can be replicated objectively in others. As for interpretation, if it is in concordance with the subjective perception and can be replicated in others, it is also objective. The same if there is a valid rationale in a prejudice and that such rationale can be replicated in others.

Thus objectivity has to do with a subjective perception that can be replicated in others. But there is no such thing as objective perception if there is no subjective perception.

QuoteWhen something's subjective (such as in a subjective opinion or thought or experience) it belongs to the person (who has the opinion, thought or the experience) and is affected by that person..
As such, the term subjective is intimately associated with bias while objective is intimately associated with truth.

Not if there is valid rationale for the bias, and the rationale for the bias can be considered objective if it can be replicated in others. But you won't have any objective basis, if there is no subjective perception.

You are a literalist (rigidly attached to words but not the meaning) if you only considered bias as bias, and associate bias literally as non-objective and non-truth, since objective and truth is none other than subjective opinion (or bias) that can be replicated in others.

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An objective opinion is repeatable not only in more than one person, but it's demonstrably accurate outside of subjective experience or perception. An objective opinion is based on research and factual information gathered through controlled parameters which includes the use of statistical analysis.

No, even the objective opinion gathered from research through whatever parameters would have ultimately come from the individual subjective perception, unless you are dealing with tangible, physical objects, but with gender perception you cannot avoid the subjective element of perception. And for one to rely on such method demonstrates the lack of understanding of empiricism, that is, the requirement of real time observation as evidence, and that mere verbal testimonies are not empirical evidence regardless of volume (statistical quantities).

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If you can not demonstrate that your definitions are "true" then they are your personal subjective opinions and thus it is dishonest to present 'em as factually or objectively true.
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ditto.
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Rebekah with a K-A-H

Quote from: Jacelyn on November 06, 2011, 06:09:01 PM
You are confused because in reality there is no such thing as an objective view, it is but a collection of a number of similar subjective views that can be replicated in others.

No, if the object is about feelings, one cannot then associate the perception of feelings as not objective, if the subjective perception of the feelings can be replicated objectively in others. As for interpretation, if it is in concordance with the subjective perception and can be replicated in others, it is also objective. The same if there is a valid rationale in a prejudice and that such rationale can be replicated in others.

Thus objectivity has to do with a subjective perception that can be replicated in others. But there is no such thing as objective perception if there is no subjective perception.

Not if there is valid rationale for the bias, and the rationale for the bias can be considered objective if it can be replicated in others. But you won't have any objective basis, if there is no subjective perception.

You are a literalist (rigidly attached to words but not the meaning) if you only considered bias as bias, and associate bias literally as non-objective and non-truth, since objective and truth is none other than subjective opinion (or bias) that can be replicated in others.

No, even the objective opinion gathered from research through whatever parameters would have ultimately come from the individual subjective perception, unless you are dealing with tangible, physical objects, but with gender perception you cannot avoid the subjective element of perception. And for one to rely on such method demonstrates the lack of understanding of empiricism, that is, the requirement of real time observation as evidence, and that mere verbal testimonies are not empirical evidence regardless of volume (statistical quantities).

ditto.

Really?  No such thing as objectivity?  You ranted about scientific "objective opinion" for a couple pages.

Also, I'm pretty sure the burden of proof still rests with you, Jacelyn.
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Jacelyn

Quote from: Wonderdyke on November 06, 2011, 06:43:03 PM
Really?  No such thing as objectivity?  You ranted about scientific "objective opinion" for a couple pages.

Also, I'm pretty sure the burden of proof still rests with you, Jacelyn.

It mean objectivity ultimate rest on subjective view. Subjective perception need no objective dependence for external proof, but you are damanding such external proof. Anything that is communicated is a form of words, words are not empircal evidence, but of inference, inference is of valid cognition, and it linked to the empirical evidence termed direct perception which is strictly subjective.
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Sailor_Saturn

We're at 17 pages now. Just thought I'd throw that out there.
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Mahsa Tezani

I've learned you don't mention cisgay men or drag queens here.

To do so, is to evoke the wrath of the endless argument.

That being said, SF has some of the best drag queens ever.
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Joeyboo~ :3

I really need to shave down there, guys.
It's scaring me.
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: JoeyD on November 06, 2011, 09:03:03 PM
I really need to shave down there, guys.
It's scaring me.

OMG!!!!!!! SHAVE IT OFF! SHAVE IT OFF!

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Joeyboo~ :3

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on November 06, 2011, 09:03:38 PM

OMG!!!!!!! SHAVE IT OFF! SHAVE IT OFF!


I'll see if I can go borrow my neighbor's lawnmower.
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: JoeyD on November 06, 2011, 09:06:10 PM
I'll see if I can go borrow my neighbor's lawnmower.

My boyfriend complains that I act like a catty, bitch, self absorbed gay man...

Do I act like a catty bitch self absorbed gay man?
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Joeyboo~ :3

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on November 06, 2011, 09:08:05 PM
My boyfriend complains that I act like a catty, bitch, self absorbed gay man...

Do I act like a catty bitch self absorbed gay man?

self absorbed
But you're the ~pretty nD perfect transgendered woman~ so you have a right to be self absorbed.
It's nice being attractive.

gay man
The gay man personality just got stuck with you,
That's his way of  getting back at the fabulous girl who took over his body.
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: JoeyD on November 06, 2011, 09:12:46 PM
self absorbed
But you're the ~pretty nD perfect transgendered woman~ so you have a right to be self absorbed.
It's nice being attractive.

gay man
The gay man personality just got stuck with you,
That's his way of  getting back at the fabulous girl who took over his body.

JoeyD....you're perfect too. I thought that the moment I saw you on this board. You missy are extremely attractive, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

As for the gay man personality, the boyfriend wants that part of me dead. I guess it's time to rehearse, "MIKI'S NEXT BISEXUAL BOYFRIEND" coming on LOGO
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Sailor_Saturn

Quote from: Laura91 on November 06, 2011, 09:00:24 PM
It's like a ball of crap that gets larger and larger.

I tell you what, we've got some darn good trolls on this site. Even I got pulled into the fray by a couple of them! They know what buttons to push!
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: Sailor_Saturn on November 06, 2011, 09:26:02 PM
I tell you what, we've got some darn good trolls on this site. Even I got pulled into the fray by a couple of them! They know what buttons to push!

I'm not a troll. I am just honest.

Especially in the "will I pass one day thread?" sorry, I bring my objectivism with me when I go on this site.
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: ClosetClownsInBadDrag on November 06, 2011, 09:35:20 PM
I was in a monogamous relationship with a man for 6 years, just cause you were all whores sucking guys off in glory holes doesn't mean all gay men are.  I mean you gotta be far in the closet to create a whole delusional world where you're a woman just so you can suck a guy off and not be called gay.  Massive closet cases in drag.  Gay men are fat and thin, and flaming and macho, all kinds of different people.  idiots.  Hey you go to the community center and there's clowns in bad drag running down gays and harrasing lesbians in the washroom and transvestites standing around in pantyhose in stupid poses, wtf where did you people come from?

You mentioned gay men and drag queens in the same paragraph!
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Sailor_Saturn

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on November 06, 2011, 09:31:39 PM
I'm not a troll. I am just honest.

Especially in the "will I pass one day thread?" sorry, I bring my objectivism with me when I go on this site.

*pats Mahsa on the shoulder*

Not you, dear. Not you. I was talking about Jacelyn and Dahlia.
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Miniar

Quote from: Jacelyn on November 06, 2011, 06:09:01 PMYou are a literalist (rigidly attached to words but not the meaning) if you only considered bias as bias, and associate bias literally as non-objective and non-truth, since objective and truth is none other than subjective opinion (or bias) that can be replicated in others.

"I" am quite literal minded, in no small part because english is my second language and therefore I do not tend to take words used outside of context or their meaning as "accurate".

See, here's the thing. Words actually have a meaning, a definition if you will.
If you say one thing and mean something completely different then you're using the word incorrectly.
For example, if I say blue, but mean black, then you would be correct to to point out that what I've described as blue is not blue.

Words have meaning, without meaning words are pointless.
It's a bit of an oxymoron to suggest that I'm hung up on the words and not the meaning because I'm pointing out that the way you are using your words is in opposition with the meaning of the words.
Whether or not something can or can not be objective doesn't change the meaning of the word objective nor the meaning of the word subjective.

If you need to redefine words to support your claims then perhaps your claims aren't strong enough to hold water to start with.



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Jacelyn

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Quote from: Miniar on November 08, 2011, 03:21:27 AM
See, here's the thing. Words actually have a meaning, a definition if you will.
If you say one thing and mean something completely different then you're using the word incorrectly.
For example, if I say blue, but mean black, then you would be correct to to point out that what I've described as blue is not blue.

In different context, the same word can have different meaning. Therefore, one rely on the meaning, but not on the words. That is, before one write anything, first there must have a meaning (a valid rationale to oppose something), only then one begin using words to describe the meaning. But the literalist person who rely on the word and not the meaning, will begin with a word of choice according to their common sense of winning an argument and then associate that word with other words, words always have some common associations which may or may not related to the context being discussed. In this case you did not possess your own rationale (meaning), but simply associate the words such as bias, prejudice with non-objectivity which is a common association, and I simply point out that the association is invalid in previous example. I'm able to do that simply because I have the meaning with me from the very beginning, but you don't, the whole exercise is in vain as separate people here did not start argue with a valid rationale, but it is just there wishing to oppose something said, that is without having a sound foundation (of meaning / reasoning) to begin with.

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Words have meaning, without meaning words are pointless.

Wrong, word is simply word, meaning is meaning, thus word != meaning. Words are pointers (inference) of meaning, in order to point, a combination of words and sentences are needed to reinforce a meaning stated. Meaning is not just a reference to an object, but include the reason. Thus it is more than simple gathering of words with their common associations, worse is someone who is basing argument on cut and paste words of others, or of statistical data (of affirmation or negation of associated words).

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It's a bit of an oxymoron to suggest that I'm hung up on the words and not the meaning because I'm pointing out that the way you are using your words is in opposition with the meaning of the words.

Again words have no direct relevence to meaning, so I'm communicate meaning using whatever style of words I prefer, if someone fail to apprehend or confused, then they may have to exam their method, whether it is necessary to be rigidly attached to words and their common usage, while shutting themselves up to perceiving the meaning another person trying to communicate using uncommon style which may actually serve deeper understanding than otherwise.


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Whether or not something can or can not be objective doesn't change the meaning of the word objective nor the meaning of the word subjective.

Except that you got it wrong, there is no such thing as objective according to empirical evidence which itself is universal. Science (humanity, socialogy, political science) still rely on objective data, as it believe the average of the mass opinion is more accurate than individual, minor opinion. But if the mass opinion is not empirical evidence, then it is of no use, but if individual, subjective perception is having empirical evidence, than nothing can refute it (thus universal).

It is due to common usage of the term 'objective', that the term is still being use as an example to demonstrate subjective perception is actually the basis of such objectivity, but for a person who understand the mechanism of empirical evidence, there does not necessitate the mentioning of objectivity.

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If you need to redefine words to support your claims then perhaps your claims aren't strong enough to hold water to start with.

I'm communicating a meaning that is apparently alien to you, it is the reason I still use the term that you are familiar, but it doesn't mean you can then grasp the meaning by understanding the words as it is meant to you, yet despite the pointing out of you being rigid on words, here you still show a wish to be rigid to your pre-defined words and oppose any attempt to redefine words. By equating such attempt as having a claim which is false, you merely prove being defensive.



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Morrigan

18 pages now because Jacelyn is right and everyone else is wrong /sarcasm
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tekla

At least it's kept her confined to one thread so she hasn't had the time to go caroming off through the board doing this to ever other post.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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