I like Axe Phoenix as a gender neutral deodorant, since it doesn't smell particularly masculine, but not feminine either, and Twist if I'm not going to be working very closely around people that I know to have allergies, since it's a bit stronger smelling. I picked up Clix by accident once because the package is similar in color to Phoenix, and it smells like I've got an invisible boyfriend following me around, and Dark Temptation also smells distinctly masculine on me. As does Old Spice, naturally. Depends on the effect you're going for.
I sometimes use Axe shower gel, too, or this imported stuff in a dark green bottle that smells kinda like christmas trees, if I'm not using "girly" scrubby stuff. I should try that Dove Men+Care, I guess.
Neutrogena T/Sal (or generic) or Garnier clear dandruff shampoo don't smell bad and work really well, for me. They've got salicylic acid in them, like Oxy pads.
I've always liked Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab scents, they have lots that are more masculine, with woodsy or smoky notes in them, if you can figure out what it'll smell like from reading the description. Just avoid anything flowery, obviously. They have one named, if you can believe it, "Golden Priapus", which if you can get past the name, smells really good.