i date her a year she said she love me last night i found that she s a boy and all the pic send me its just from the net !!!!!!!!!!!

I don't really understand the point of this... 

Is this a good or a bad thing to you?  Does this mean she's trans (and not a boy)?

no i never met her i know her from messenger she told me shes a girl and all the year send me her pictures and told me she love me last night i found his a cisguy he told me he s boilogical guy

Quote from: jossef-ftm on November 24, 2011, 05:40:52 AMno i never met her i know her from messenger she told me shes a girl and all the year send me her pictures and told me she love me last night i found his a cisguy he told me he s boilogical guy

Does he still love you?  Was he telling the truth about that?
If he's a cisguy, did he say why he felt the need to present as a girl for the whole year he knew you?

I do not know why he did  that and let  ​​me think that hes a girl hes was sending messages and says he loves me I thought he was a girl I thought I was lucky and she loves me i asked why he said he was just bored and he love to surprise people

Perhaps this person is MTF and presents as a cisgirl online to feel comfortable and feel as though they are who they wish to be. They may not be ready to accept themselves just yet. I remember when I was much younger, I mostly portrayed myself as a cisguy to people who I talked to online until I was comfortable enough with myself and trusted those I spoke to enough to tell them that I was FTM.

That, or, he could have just been 'bored' and purposely stringing you along. People do strange things to pass the time. If this is the case, I am sorry to hear things have fallen through.

Quote from: jossef-ftm on November 24, 2011, 05:50:17 AMI do not know why he did  that and let  ​​me think that hes a girl hes was sending messages and says he loves me I thought he was a girl I thought I was lucky and she loves me i asked why he said he was just bored and he love to surprise people

He was bored for a whole entire year?  I believe you, I believe what you're saying he said.  But a part of me almost doesn't believe him.

Before I knew I was trans, I presented as a guy online, and I (accidentally) ended up getting into an online relationship with another gay male.  I didn't mean for it to happen, we were just online friends, and then we ended up liking eachother.  and I felt guilty the whole time for basically lying to him and saying I was male.  I even showed him fake pictures on myself.  And then eventually came the time to tell him the truth, and I couldn't say anything other than, "I'm really a girl.  I don't know why I lied, but once I started I couldn't stop."  Needless to say, it didn't go over well.  He blocked me and we never spoke again.  He thought I'd lied about everything, even my feelings for him.  But then a few years later, I came out to myself as trans. 

Now I'm not going to pretend I know your online friend, so I'm not saying he's trans or anything.  I'm just saying, there's got to be more to the story, and maybe he doesn't even know why he did it yet. 

How do you feel about what he did?  What are you going to do about it?

he is not trans hes straight and  have a girlfriend and maybe he did that cause in the chat i was talking in public about my problems and about how hard to have a girlfriend when u r a trans maybe he just want to know how i will feel if i have a girl thats why he lied

Quote from: jossef-ftm on November 24, 2011, 06:07:46 AMhe is not trans hes straight and  have a girlfriend and maybe he did that cause in the chat i was talking in public about my problems and about how hard to have a girlfriend when u r a trans maybe he just want to know how i will feel if i have a girl thats why he lied

Do you think he was telling the truth when he said he loved you?

noooooooo he was lying just to know how i will feel cause i knew him and after 2 days he said he loves me
can somone love an other in 48 hours ?
but i was lonly i said maybe this girl really loves me

Quote from: jossef-ftm on November 24, 2011, 06:16:17 AMnoooooooo he was lying just to know how i will feel cause i knew him and after 2 days he said he loves me
can somone love an other in 48 hours ?
but i was lonly i said maybe this girl really loves me

Well you said you dated him for a year.  After a year you can love someone. 
Do you still talk to him?  Or have you decided to block him?

i blocked him i want a girl not a guy i would let him be my friend but hes a liar

Alright.  Well, man, all i can say is I'm sorry this happened.  Hopefully you can find another friend online who won't do this to you.

you are the same guy that posted a youtube video three weeks ago of you singing a Justin Bieber song while, as you said,  your girlfriend was asleep in the next room. YOU are the liar.
Here's your thread:
www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,109346.msg824216.html#msg824216

emil yes i had a girlfriend we broq up i ma not a liar i knew him as a friend i didnt said i love him
so ask before u call people liars

you wrote you dated him/her for a year online. I'm not gonna apologize.

yes as a friend not a lover

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dating 

Quote from: jossef-ftm on November 24, 2011, 07:11:32 AMyes as a friend not a lover

I can tell English probably isn't your first language.  but, you can only really "date" a boyfriend or girlfriend.  You can't really date a friend.  well you can, but then they wouldn't be your friend anymore, they would be your boyfriend or girlfriend.

yes its not my first language i mean i know him for 1 year not i love him