Even if you plan on growing it out anyway, the thing you should probably do for now is to do what many here plain out have to do - wear a wig. Your hair is thin enough that a wig cap would work well with it, and from there, I think a dark brown (your hair color) wig that is shoulder length, slightly wavy, and very thick would bring out the female side of you very well. The great thing about a wig is that you can take it off any time if need be, depending on the wig you get. I would also suggest playing around with the idea of that wig having bangs, though thick, bobbed bangs may make your face too harsh; thinner, pieced bangs swept to the side may make a much better bet.
Right now, you have some very feminine eyes there, but concerning the rest of the face, I believe you have a transition to undergo. I'll say that I don't think you have the face that begs for surgery, but just concerning skin thickness, stuble, and touches here and there, I think hormones will continue to do wonders (and start them up if you're not on them!)
Also, remember that wigs can be cut to any length, many balding men wear them and you never really know. You can get it cut as short as you like, for example if you want thicker hair, but you want a cut that can pass as man's or woman's cut. As it is though, I just don't think your current haircut does anything for the gender you want to be, and it's a sucky situation to be in. I could really picture a short style on you as well if you want an androgynous wig; I could imagine a short, wavy haircut in almost in the style of Justin Bieber's, but with a hair texture that is quite wavy and black, like hispanic hair, curled to give a feminine touch but not overly womanly to the point you could never wear it in the office.
