Missed this.
I go to the gym about 3 times a week. I don't do classes, I use the aerobic room, bikes, cross trainers, rowing, tread mill etc then move to the weight room area.
My weights have dropped totally since I started HRT, but they keep me toned. I just ask a guy to change the weights for me if they are too heavy, I find that it is that amusing that weights I used to lift I know ask someone to help me with.
I have to admit my gym is close to home so I change and shower at home. I wear a T and gym trainers, same as the other girls. I'm no fashion statement but very few of the girls are. No idea what it is like in classes.
I started in the gym when I was full time male, I'm now female, no one has had any sort of hissy fit.
I have had one incident in my early days when someone (male) came up to me and started to say nasty stuff, I got upset and started to cry . Two very large men whose names I did not know , at the time, just walked over said something to him and I have never seen him since.
I keep myself to myself, but I'm friendly and open. But it is a gym and not a pick up spot, and it might sound silly but I think the guys like it that way. Then again as I said I do not do classes just an individual program. I have to admit that very few of the woman talk to each other either, it is an exercise place. I don't mean to sound it is unfriendly, it isn't, it is a place we work out.
I like it and I enjoy the feeling of being fit.
I've never been a community exercise person. I hate team sports etc.
But go and do it and enjoy.
Cindy