Hello girls,

As some of you know, my big day is in February and so I have a lot of things on my mind right now. So now I'm wondering, when I have sex, there won't be any place for the sperm to swim to and settle in. So if a guy ejaculates inside of me, will the semen just sort of drip out once you are vertical? Or how does that work?

Chrissi

It happens with cis-girls as well you know.

Always good to take a shower after sex, or make him wear a condom

Or make him sleep on the wet spot...

-Sandy

Quote from: Icephoenyx on December 19, 2011, 09:08:17 PM
Hello girls,

As some of you know, my big day is in February and so I have a lot of things on my mind right now. So now I'm wondering, when I have sex, there won't be any place for the sperm to swim to and settle in. So if a guy ejaculates inside of me, will the semen just sort of drip out once you are vertical? Or how does that work?

Chrissi

it'll drip out. Happens with Genetic girls too

Some of it will drip, but some will stay. If it stays in there it will start to smell, so it's best to either take a long bath afterwards or (more practical) just buy a douche and clean up quickly afterwards.

If you don't have a douche handy, a small bottle of sparkling mineral water can be handy (shake first) .

Make him sleep on the wet spot- he did it!

I thought douching was bad for you.  I've always heard that it kills the good bacteria and allows the bad bacteria to thrive, and this is for gg vaginas which are supposedly self-cleaning. 

I think over-regular douching is bad for the body, but as needed, it's better than harbouring foreign matter in a part of the body that can't naturally flush it out.

Good question OP. Will you be able to "push" the semen out?

Padma, I think your suggestion of a mineral water flush sounds good and safe.  I've never douched in my life, because I've always been advised not to.  So far, so good.  Women are so obsessed with their natural bodily functions and scents.  I think they feel that they have to separate themselves from anything remotely sexual.  They want to smell like flowers and perfume.

My suggestion was a little tongue-in-cheek, but it's based on reading about third world sex workers using diet pepsi as a douche, because whatever godawful chemicals are in it act as a spermicide and bactericide . Mineral water should at worst just be a little acidic - shake it up, spray it in, let it run out. A douche is less wasteful, but one doesn't always have one in the back pocket.

A home-grown vagina will do a good job of flushing itself out, but a hand-made one doesn't have the same capability, alas, and needs some help - whether it's sperm, or a build-up of leftover lube from sex or dilating. But only when it actually needs it, because as you say, a build-up of benign flora is what keeps a girl fresh, not anything out of a bottle.

I'm glad we explored the douching topic.  I'm kind of a less is more girl and like to keep things as natural as possible. Thanks for the info, Padma.  I am now wondering what makes the natural vaginal self-cleaning.  I'm thinking that it is constantly lubricating and pushing stuff out, which is why we have discharge.

It's nice discussing these things girl to girl!

natural vaginas release cleansing fluid and push it out with gentle waves or squeezing motions starting at the back - exactly the same ways kids get the last drops of juice out of those plastic tube ice lollies.

a neo-vag will get the same effect every time the person sits to empty the bowels...

and just maybe both sorts of vaginas will relax during sleep and let it happen naturally?

A neovag doesn't have any flow from above to aid flushing out, though (except a little natural lube in some cases). This is why it may need assistance from outside from time to time to keep crevices unclagged .

Quote from: Padma on December 20, 2011, 10:26:14 AM
A neovag doesn't have any flow from above to aid flushing out, though (except a little natural lube in some cases). This is why it may need assistance from outside from time to time to keep crevices unclagged .

god bless deep bathtubs with strong water pressure HA!

Ok but wouldn't it drip out moreso for us tg's, since gg's get more of it 'absorbed' into the fallopians and the ovaries, don't they?

depends on how "crinkly" our insides end up, I suppose.

Quote from: Icephoenyx on December 21, 2011, 12:46:57 AM
Ok but wouldn't it drip out moreso for us tg's, since gg's get more of it 'absorbed' into the fallopians and the ovaries, don't they?

That is usually referred to as pregnancy.

The cervix will spasm open during orgasm (the main purpose of climax) and allow the sperm to enter the uterus.  But the amount of fluid of seminal fluid that is drawn in is minimal.

I think that the "drip" factor is approximately the same for trans and non-trans women.  Some seminal fluid is absorbed by the body, but most will leak out if we sit up or even lie horizontally.

One advice from fertility specialists is to remain in the knee-chest position following coitus to allow more sperm to enter the uterus, and as a side result more fluid is absorbed by the vaginal walls.

You could try that but it's just easier to get up and clean up.

-Sandy