I told my wife of 10 years i feel more like a women than a man...stress mainly  is the reason i told her i kinda snapped.
when i dress up ect i feel  better about myself somehow and a lot happier of a person.
But i am not attracted to men at all and in a way i think my wife is afraid people will view her as a lesbian or something.

Well the questions are this..
How does  a person get on hormones? in detail i live in Kentucky  and have got no idea where to start.
I am pretty sure my state sucks in this avenue of lifestyle.
Yes no hormones therapy i have done my best to live as a woman for 4 months full time.
store dates with wife ect... But i have no idea how to get a doctor to prescribe hormones or how to do this.



2ND..Can my marriage last this?
Its been over 6 months since i  came out to her.
She buys me panties cloths  does my makeup teaching me as i go.
She is very supportive but i worry about losing her so much over this i constantly thinking she is cheating..i never say anything but  i get a gut feeling she feels i will eventually want to leave her once all of this is played out.
Hince why i think she is liable to cheat..idk paranoid i assume

But our marriage seems to be a lot stronger we love each other for hours do a lot more things together.
she knows we have more in common then she ever realized and she tells me all the time how much more happier she is cause i am  so much happier.
Not to mention the cloth shopping....

Hi Rachael,

Merry Christmas to you and your wife, your wife may want to join the significant others board as well.

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Hi, and welcome to Susan's! We have people come to visit us from all over the world, expressing different points of view, and you are likely to find someone to help you along your way   

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I'm  in Australia so I can only comment broadly about the USA.

One of the first things is to get a gender therapist, they will help you and your wife to deal with the problems you face and guide you through the whole deal. You are a very lucky woman that your wife is willing to hang in. Make sure you treat her with a lot of love and attention. TG people can become quite selfish about their needs as the problems seem so overpowering. Yet their needs as a wife and spouse continue and they suffer terribly with guilt, concern and love. And with the chance of rejection by the society they live in. Most people want to be seen as 'normal', that is why there are preggie woman's groups, new mum groups, because everyone is normal to each other.

BTW that is one reason to be here as well. You are totally normal. We know exactly what you are going through. I have been married for 29 yrs.  There are many people on the board who have survived in relationships. We do what we do.

Have a sit and a read, and bring your wife in as well. You may well find that we are a very friendly community. We try to be so.

Hugs

Cindy

helooooo  I can't say much because I'm a lone weirdo.

but it's sounds as though your marriage is doing really well