Quote from: MsDazzler on December 31, 2011, 10:44:10 AM
good god, really?

MY interest vanishes the moment i find out a man is a CD or transvestive - lol. I've fought hard to obtain the right to wear a bra and panty; I dont need competition from a stranger, lol.

+1

This is straight from the horse's mouth (so to speak) - a guy just wrote me on OkCupid.com...

Here is what he said verbatim:

"Just came across your profile. You look amazing. I'm not experienced and didn't think I was curious, but you are one of the sexiest women I've ever seen. Get back at me if you are interested."

The people here who said appearing very sexy and presentable as a female get +1

Another thread jostled another thought for this thread-

The less attached a man is to his family, the greater the chance that he will accept you - that means he wont care if he is not invited to holiday gatherings, etc, etc, anymore

Quote from: MsDazzler on January 06, 2012, 01:07:59 PM
The less attached a man is to his family, the greater the chance that he will accept you - that means he wont care if he is not invited to holiday gatherings, etc, etc, anymore

That sounds right to me too - I know I don't really care if my family approves or not, but I know plenty of people thhat do.  I suspect people with families that value the worth of all people would be fine, even if the man was very attached to his family (unfortunately, that type of family seems sort of rare - but they are out there).

I think if the person cares what lots of people think about their own choices, they will be both more dangerous to be around and less accepting.

Men want to be seen in public with me. I don't think the families are the issue completely.

I've met guys friends, etc and they don't have a problem with it.

It's more of the guy himself.

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on January 06, 2012, 01:51:54 PM
Men want to be seen in public with me. I don't think the families are the issue completely.

I've met guys friends, etc and they don't have a problem with it.

It's more of the guy himself.

Yeah, like I mentioned somewhere else, it is the guy projecting his fears on his family members.

Ah, I need to find a loner who has no family or friends to worry about, lol.

Now is that a tall, dark, and handsome loner I see sitting in the corner of the bar...