I have an understanding gf who's willing to wait for my FTM surgery and has been supporting me emotionally for the past 3 years. And then some idiot friend of hers comes up and asks if she was a les for rejecting every guy who asked her out (none of them know about me)...and now she's feeling hurt and it's my fault =( LEAVE HER ALONE

If she's dating you, why don't people know?

I'm just curious because you never explained this.
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bballshorty, I promise I will leave your gf alone.

(I don't know what's going on either)

ermmmm I met her on an online game ages ago....(not that I'm encouraging that, I got lucky I didn't meet a pedo) and at first she thought I was just a normal guy...we started really liking each other and stayed together even though we no longer play that game. She lives in the states and I'm canadian. Last June, I finally told her about me and she told me that she's fine with who I am. That's the abridged version of what happened.

SHAWTY -

I've dated people like like this people years ago when I was coming into myself; actually, meeting people online helped me find my identity. I was saying I was a guy online long before I truly accepted my identity for what it was in real, so I understand. Unfortunately, many people will try to discredit online dating and try to tell your girlfriend that she isn't really dating you, because you never even met once...I'm assuming you're a teenager and teenagers can be mean like that. Unless she is totally insistent on liking you and regularly talks about you to her friends, they are probably going to continue to harass her. I'm sorry that you both have to deal with this though, both obnoxious people & the distance.
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Yea, some of the friends we "met" on that game are telling her that I'm a creeper who's at least 20 years old (I'm 18 btw). I am currently trying to find a summer job near the place where my gf lives so I can actually meet her in person, but I've been so overwhelmed by obstacles these few days that I've broken down more times can I can count.

Time to rant.

First of all, the world's in a recession right now so I am having an extremely difficult time finding a summer job close to my gf. All of the sponsors (I need a sponsor company to get my visa for me and be my contact agency) that I have contacted either did not reply, or they told me to find an employer first. To make matters worse, I am running out of time because these things are typically planned 6-9months ahead of time and I only have 5-6 months left. Oh, and here's the good part: my mother still thinks I'm a girl and she going to flip when I tell her that I'll be working in the US (if my plan works..if it doesn't, I'm not telling her).

It feels good to rant.