Quote from: Wonderdyke on January 26, 2012, 01:12:53 AM
Yeah, I don't really care what you think about her mental state, because I think she's made it clear that her identity is such. Trans people are constantly having their mental state questioned by others for their identity, and it's really unsavory. She may have a hell of a lot of other mental health issues going on, and she clearly did several things that were indefensible. I'm not defending her actions, but y'all, respecting people's self-identity is a cardinal rule.
You missed my point. The top section of my post was in response to Bradley and why he was a perfect candidate of being taken advantaged of by wikileaks. He desired attention so much he was willing to do something illegal to get it.
My second point (which has bearing to how he sees his self) is the fact that he doesn't know what he believes. He even stated that. If he is unsure as to what he is, I will use the default pronoun until he is clear he is transgender.
I've been following his story. One week he is a gay man, the other week he wants to be a woman. It then cycles depending on his mood and his therapists are saying he has a personality crises and it's one of the defense team's arguments in his favor.
So, essentially, you saying "her" all the time can be offensive to Bradley as he keeps on switching what his identity is. Who knows, maybe Bradley is Bi Gender...but at this time no one has been saying anything.
I think you should know by now by my posts I am a big advocate of the gender being between the ears and not between the legs and I am an advocate for non ops and pre op's right to be a woman. I've been attacked here quite a few times for defending my views that post op women are not the only ones who has the right to be called female. Bradley doesn't know what he is. He even told his therapist that. He goes by a female name on twitter and he crossdressed a couple times to take pics but according to Bradley and his therapist, that's as far as they gotten and he is so confused with a myriad of other issues that he is not sure of his gender...this is coming from him...not the Army.
So the proper pronoun will probably be he/she or a pronoun that reflects when Bradley feels of the proper gender at the time.