I had a email-penpal in Germany who, unbeknownst to me, had become infatuated with me. I didn't think to write him with the bigtime move to Oz and about 6 months later, my mother told me that he'd tracked down my sister on facebook and had been harassing her for info and, the biggest shock of all, had found my mother's home address and mailed her a letter talking about how he wanted to find me and fly me to Germany and how happy I made him. YUUUUCK. Does that count?