Quote from: ChiralSpiral on February 04, 2012, 03:11:21 PM
One issue I'm concerned about is atrophy/ reduction in size of the penis and loss of sex drive, leading to loss of sex drive after SRS, or even loss of ability to orgasm. This would seem to indicate that maybe having SRS first if at all possible would be the better idea? But that doesn't seem to be the way most people go and I'm assuming there must be reason.
Well, surgeons usually require a letter from your therapist, which approves you for surgery, and that's given after 1 year of real-life experience (RLE), as far as I know. Others don't find it as pressing to get it, and rather fix their appearance (facial feminisation surgery).
The reduction is definitely noticeable, not only of the penis itself, but the testicles as well. The skill of the operating surgeon comes into play when it comes to smaller sizes.
QuoteI also had a question regarding breast development, what size would be expected and how long do they take to grow? I've seen some people talking about fairly rapid changes with hormones while other sources would seem to indicate it takes years to really start seeing effects.
It usually takes about 3-5 weeks for them to start developing, and it takes up to 5 years for them to mature. Everyone's mileage varies, though, so some develop quicker than others. And some slower.
The size of the transitioner's breasts should be expected somewhere around their mother's, or at least her line. Though it's usually always somewhat smaller. Genetics, fat distribution, age, and estrogen sensitivity play an important part in it all.
QuoteI've been reading that starting younger is better. I'm 24 now, is that too late to see more dramatic changes?
Even people transitioning past their 50's go through dramatic changes, so no, you're not too old. The general consensus is that starting before 30 tends to give better results, but of course, depends on each individual.
QuoteAnd lastly, how much does it actually cost? I realize this will vary by country but I'd like to get a rough average if possible.
That depends on where you live and if you have health insurance. If not, it can be a very costly thing (300-400$) every few months.
Changing one's physical gender is complex because our bodies are complex. And we make it even more complicated for ourselves. Most battle with self-image issues, which just adds to the whole problem. But anyway, hope that answered your questions to an extent. I'm certain someone's going to go into more detail regarding each of them.