Here's a suggestion that has helped me. After SRS (or: especially after SRS), get a full length mirror and hang it in your bedroom or bathroom somewhere you can easily see it. For me that has made a big difference in the way I view myself. Well, yes in the literal sense but also in your minds' eye.

Oh, - couldn't do without. ALWAYS had one for the last 15 years :-)

Axélle

Well, I never had one. I didn't want to be reminded of what I saw in the reflection.