When I first awoke to myself as transgendered, I tried a few names that started with S; Sally Anne, Sabrina, and a few others. None of these seemed quite right, so I created the name zythyra, which is based on my birth name. I like this name since it isn't associated with any gender, and that works since I feel neither male or female, but something else.
Many years ago I asked my mother what my name would've been if I'd been born visibly female, she said Alice was a possibility.
When I first joined Susan's, I used a b+w of myself that was taken in 1993, then I used a color pic from around 2000 for a while. Being a little concerned with privacy, I pulled the pictures and picked this avatar instead.
zythyra