If before you stepped on this planet God gave you 2 options to choose to incarnate on planet earth as either

1. a Biological woman who can bare children etc... but looking very ordinary and common like 'Miss Everybody'.

2. than to be Sex Bomb and very beautiful and passable Trans woman at the end but at the cost of suffering the worst of the worst almost your entire life to reach that point.

Which would you choose? Me I go for No.2 cos I prefer Beauty. And you?

#1

Transsexuals are never beautiful. You might choose some that have had $$$$$$$'s of surgery and say they're beautiful, but they still have very obvious male features.

# 1, though I do not quite agree with the previous post.
So just a normal female for me - but that does not mean to be a frump either, um.

Too much beauty often makes mentally lazy, only relying on one's external values. It brings more often than not, plenty of disappointments – and the BIG ONE just waiting down the line when age becomes the big issue.

Axélle

#1 definately. Biggest reason would be the children. (Oh yes, I love kids. <3)

And I beg to disagree with Zoey. There are MANY beautiful transwomen out there. Some with the aid of expensive surgeries, some without.

Quote from: Renee D on March 18, 2012, 09:23:39 AM
Um, anyone or anything can be beautiful, it is not defined by having only feminine characteristics, you know.

The more you post, the more I think troll.

i'm not a troll, I just hate myself and what it seems i am.

Quote from: x zOeY x on March 18, 2012, 09:12:26 AM
#1

Transsexuals are never beautiful. You might choose some that have had $$$$$$$'s of surgery and say they're beautiful, but they still have very obvious male features.

O.o

Obvious male features can be quite beautiful.

Being able to bare children makes choice number 1 a winner for me.
I can handle being an ordinary looking woman, which is probly the most I could hope for after transition anyway.

#1. Maybe my sights aren't set as high as every other woman, but I just want to be me. Who says I still couldn't look good and attract a guy?

Quote from: x zOeY x on March 18, 2012, 09:12:26 AM
#1

Transsexuals are never beautiful. You might choose some that have had $$$$$$$'s of surgery and say they're beautiful, but they still have very obvious male features.

So do many... many xx females...

I would want to be a plain biowoman. I want to be able to have children for one. And I'd also like not to have to feel hated and rejected by all I know and love, as I would as a transwoman, beautiful or not.

Oh, and YES. There are a lot of very beautiful transwoman. Make me... very jealous. 

Bio-woman.

The thing that causes the most pain for me is that I will never become a mother.

NB: Just being born as a cis-woman doesn't mean your get the whole package with everything working out just fine.

Quote from: Renee D on March 18, 2012, 10:19:49 AM
The main thing to me would be not having to be concerned with whether I'm fake, not having my gender questioned by myself or others. That is what is most attractive to me about choice #1.

Same for me. At least at this point in my life. I'm not ready yet to have kids and start a family. Who knows how I'll feel about that in the future...

Quote from: Renee D on March 18, 2012, 09:23:39 AM
Um, anyone or anything can be beautiful, it is not defined by having only feminine characteristics, you know.

The more you post, the more I think troll.

Uh-huh, an obviously very visually stimulated one at that, which is always a dead give-away!

I'd prefer to just be me with all the flaws and not make a big statement and draw unwanted attention to myself. I'm sure that I speak for many here!

Number 1.

The majority of men on the planet have relationships with perfectly ordinary women, but how many men are prepared to have a relationship with a trans woman?
Too few in my experience.

Quote from: x zOeY x on March 18, 2012, 09:12:26 AM
#1

Transsexuals are never beautiful. You might choose some that have had $$$$$$$'s of surgery and say they're beautiful, but they still have very obvious male features.

Spend a few days analyzing women in places like malls, Waltmart, etc. what you may conclude is that the majority are neither very beautiful nor very feminine -according to our Victoria Secret model standards-

The beauty is not in the bones but in the soul and mind, your feminine allure -what the French call: "the I do not know what-" in the way you feel and project yourself.

I do not know your situation, but everybody can eventually pass even without surgery, it take time, Patience, practice, and more important developing you inner woman self esteem

I can feel your pain, take hart, accept my hugs and love

Quote from: Siren on March 18, 2012, 10:25:01 AM
Number 1.

The majority of men on the planet have relationships with perfectly ordinary women, but how many men are prepared to have a relationship with a trans woman?
Too few in my experience.

...and how many lesbians are prepeared to have relatioships with a transwoman ?

#2 because I have BDD and I believe there's some good to come out of being brought up as a guy.

But having to take hormones for the rest of your life really does suck.

I'd have to go with ... #1, but not because of children... it never mattered whether I had kids or not, it would be nice, but wasn't everything.  I just would've liked the peace of mind... the 'no struggle' part of being a biowoman right from the start.. and by struggle I refer to the whole transition process. Just being a woman right from the start would've been awesome for me. 

I'd probably go with the second option, despite I'm in agreement with most who chose the first. Not because I'd be unearthly beautiful (okay, well ... partially), but mostly because being trans is a unique experience, sometimes good and sometimes bad, but it's a journey not everyone undertakes and I feel like it has shaped me into a better person all around, and has given me a unique perspective over just about anything.

P.S. no cellulite rocks.

I said something to my best friend yesterday: "I'd rather be born the ugliest girl on the planet than be born the most attractive guy on the planet" ... She (cis girl) said "That's just so wrong." I said "Yeah well I bet if you think about it for yourself, you'd agree" ... she said "Yeah.. you're right"

I'll take being an xx girl. Much less work, much less expensive, less health risks, and you're guaranteed to fit into the female society without "slipping up"...