My wife is very much a pretty cis girl with very Nordic features, but she is not a "girly girl" has probably only worn a real dress three times in her life, wears mostly the "layered" look from Eddie Baur, does not wear pink but loves purple tie-dye, and I love every bit of that in her
but I also love the girls who dress up in more traditional girl fashions...pretty much all women are beautiful in their own personal way in my book...

(as far as males go, I am not attracted to them, but get along fine with them)
I dont really consider girls "opposite gender" as terms and labels get a bit mixed up in our situations.
here is a "cut & paste" I just ran across

Women don't have to:
be thin
have a vagina
give birth
cook for you
have long hair
wear makeup
have sex with you
be feminine
be graceful
shave
diet
be fashionable
wear pink
love men
be the media's idea of perfection
listen to your bull->-bleeped-<-