I'm not androgynous myself, wasn't even aware of the term androgynous until a couple days ago actually; however, I realized that, while I considered myself completely straight until a couple days ago, after my fiancee told me she'd have no problem if I felt like I wanted an additional partner as she knows how much love I have to give (I'm a dominant, but an emotional and caring one that desires nothing but to give love, security, and comfort to those under me, although currently my only submissive is my fiancee, I now know that I could feel completely fulfilled in my love life with a bf I can have a loyal relationship and give security and love to as well), I researched potential partners and came across a beautiful, gothic androgynous guy I felt a sort of "love at first sight" type of connection with, but unfortunately he wanted a 1-on-1 devoted relationship I couldn't give because of my being engaged and loving my fiancee, so now he and I are just friends. Right now, I'd like to meet any androgynous males within a days trip I could travel to that would be interested in a few dates to see how well we click.
If not for my body type, I'd say that when my hair is long I could be seen as fairly androgynous, but I think the viking blood (I'm definitely a mutt and proud of it -_^ - Irish, English, Scottish, Welsh, German, Norwegian, Cherokee, and Commanchee) with my barrel chest keeps me in the fully male category... works for the best I think though as I am more of a dom, but one who respects and loves his sub, though I'd love to have a guy with similiar interests to mine (anime/games/horror) to fulfill my love life as I feel that I need both my fiancee (who's fortunately an extreme tomboy, nearly an androgynous female herself) and an androgynous male with my interests to really feel fulfilled in life, and I can give probably enough love, comfort, and security for an entire group... still, I only desire to have two loves, a bf and a gf (my fiancee) so to speak. I've always been the extremely loyal type.
Anyways, I'd love to meet any of you guys in the area, and hope to be given a chance to show that, even though I'm engaged to a woman, I still have a huge amount of love to give ^_^. Oh and I'm into anime, video games (mainly jrpgs and srpgs), and horror (especially zombie ->-bleeped-<-), so someone who shares my interests are definitely a plus, especially if you're goth/punk/emo like my fiancee and me. Really hoping to meet someone I can give security to and provide for... if having this message on here upsets anyone, I sincerely apologize... its just really difficult to find androgynous guys out there on singles sites being that you can't generally search for them, so I figure forums and other online communities are the best option.
