I can understand your anxiety tink. The first time is really scary, and on top of that you have insecurities about the functioning of your new vag.
I just want to reassure you that you are not alone and that you are not disabled in any way.
There are lots guys out there who are beautiful and will treat you like the princess you are. You have enough depth to be functional. Whoever your partner is they are going to be attracted to you and hot for you and sex can be hot and satisfying. Your vagina is just one part of the overall sexual experience and you have plenty to work with.
You are going to be nervous, but that is ok. And it is ok to talk to prospective lovers about it. I think you will find most guys won't care, and those that do are not worth your time and will be crap in the sack anyway.