Hi, Ryan;
'Fetish'? what 'fetish'? Well, crossdressing is certainly one aspect of yourself you're welcome to talk about here. What the other members say goes, but also consider seeking out and attending gatherings of, say,The Second Self Society, commonly known as 'Tri-ess'. Also, there may be some transgender groups near enough that you can attend their meetings. Plus, you'll probably be able to take your outfits with you and 'dress' at the event.
But more importantly, get to know others who share this -erm- 'interest' -- more importantly, get to know the side of them that doesn't have to do with crossdressing or TG/TS. You'll find out that they're otherwise pretty normal, like you.
And while you're visiting Susan's, we encourage you to use the 'facility' that conforms to your gender, not your sex...

(it's down the hall past the water cooler on the right...)
Welcome!
Karen