I just wanted to say that I am glad it is over. It lingered over for way to long. Even though some relationships seem to workout when one transitions mine did not. I hope that through posting here that the newbies make better decisions then I did. Thanks to everyone that has helped me get through this tough time.

Have a hug honey.  Single Girl now, free to live the way you need to.
I know what you mean about procrastinating.  First there were a couple of years when I hoped she might come back, then I was in denial or angry, then I started transition so it was too hard, finally when I had decided to start transition I just did it.

Hugs again.  Karen.