Hey, Jay, I think you might be right about the massage widening my scars.  The ends of the incisions in the center of my chest I believe have widened since doing the massage.  I don't get why they would tell us massage helps scars.  Flattening and making them lighter I suppose, but I do think it may cause some of the widening.  Maybe.  Who knows, you know?
I will say that on the whole my scar has gotten wider than I was hoping it would.  I don't know the reason for this since I have been so careful.  My assumptions are:
1) Just my skin.
2) Maybe Garramone took off too much skin so it was really tight?
I don't know, I have been so anal about it all, it just doesn't make sense.  It is disappointing.  The chest itself, I LOVE, I am just surprised at the scars.  They don't look out of bounds from the pictures I have seen at this stage of healing (4 months, three weeks), but there are definitely thinner ones out there.  Also, I am reading a lot of people here saying that their scars are pretty darn thin.  Of course, everyone on here is behind me on healing, so maybe that is why.
I don't expect to ever have huge pecs or chest hair to cover the scars, so I am not pleased.  Not that I plan on going without a shirt anyway, I suppose, I was just not expecting them to get this wide.   

/whining