Cat's out of the bag

[Devlyn]

My mom is in hospice, and soon I'll be seeing family. I just sent an email to both my sisters explaining that I've changed and things could get awkward. I laid my cards right on the table, now I'm waiting. Nervously.

Hugs, Devlyn

[Eveline]

I hope it goes well for you, Devlyn.

Your sense of humor will get you through!

[cindianna_jones]

You'll be fine. You know what can happen. Some bad, some good, and some quite unexpected excellence. Good for you for finally coming out! I think that transition is not a brave thing like so many have told me. Rather, it is telling your family and friends. THAT, my dear is very brave. We are proud of you!

Chin up!
Cindi

[Jill F]

All the best to you and your mom, Devlyn.

[marsh monster]

Sorry you're mom is in Hospice. and yeah, it can make you nervous, but you'll get through it.


I remember when I had to see family I hadn't seen in a very long time in Georgia when we went down to take care of my grandma's ashes, I was already living as me and carrying a purse and all that, not a one of them said anything about it, lol.  I never offered an explanation for anything either. I figured I wasn't close enough to any of them for it to matter.



And people, stop putting cats in bags, its inhumane!!!

[LordKAT]

And people, stop putting cats in bags, its inhumane!!!

So true!


Anyway, I hope it goes well for you. Family can be surprising in their responses.

[Shawn Sunshine]

I hope all goes well for you. 

[Cindy]

Hugs to you Mum.

And my total support for your decision. I hope it goes awesomely

Hugs

[mrs izzy]

My mom is in hospice, and soon I'll be seeing family. I just sent an email to both my sisters explaining that I've changed and things could get awkward. I laid my cards right on the table, now I'm waiting. Nervously.

Hugs, Devlyn

You have any eight's?

Lots of support

Hugs

[Jen72]

Good luck and from what I have seen you post I think you are a strong person that will do just fine:) And family can surprise you in ways you never thought hopefully in a good way!

[Arch]

Cats love bags.

But I'm glad that Devlyn's is out. Sounds like it needs to be. I have my fingers crossed, DM.

[Ayden]

I hope everything goes well for you, Devlyn. I will keep my fingers crossed that you get the best response possible.

And people, stop putting cats in bags, its inhumane!!!

I never get to have any fun... *puts bag away*

[Jenny07]

Big step Devlyn.

Hope there's not a family of cats in the bag.

[adrian]

I'm sorry to hear about your Mom. I hope your family is cat-friendly!

[big kim]

I hope it all goes well.Best wishes

[JenSquid]

Sorry to hear about your mother, Devlyn.

Ok, cats in bags is inhumane. What about boxes?

[Laura_7]

Cats love bags.

They love cardboard

Hugs and wish you luck.

[FTMax]

Good luck Devlyn! I hope everything goes as good as possible!

[Devlyn]

Thanks everyone.  I haven't heard back from either one yet.

Hugs, Devlyn

[Cindy]

Hon,
One thing. Maybe the only thing I know from life, is you flip a coin, sometimes it is heads sometimes tails, who wins ? No idea, usually the coin flipper.

That is my profound philosophical comment for the night!