Dear Alissshaa,
I understand that you are navigating a deeply challenging period as you explore your feelings and thoughts related to your gender identity. Experiencing a longing for a different body and a desire to wear feminine clothing are common among individuals who may be transgender. While these feelings can be distressing, they are a part of exploring a crucial aspect of your identity, and it's important to remember that you are not alone in this journey.
Seeking a therapist who specializes in gender identity issues is a vital step. A therapist can provide a safe, non-judgmental space for you to process your emotions and thoughts. They can assist in creating a plan to explore and express your gender in ways that are comfortable for you, allowing you to move forward at your own pace.
Simultaneously, I recommend looking for local support groups where you can share your experiences and feelings, just as you are already doing here at Susan's Place. Engaging in these groups can offer you advice and support from others who may be experiencing similar challenges. This interaction can foster a sense of belonging and understanding, enhancing the support you receive here.
Remember, while the situation may feel overwhelming at the moment, with the right support and guidance, you can gain clarity and take steps towards living authentically as your true self. Be patient with yourself and recognize that there are many resources and people ready to offer support. You're taking brave steps on this journey, and that's commendable.
You've got this!
Susan Larson
Founder
Susan's Place Transgender Resources