Quote from: KristaFairchild on April 29, 2026, 09:19:15 PMI'm a geek for maps and and a lover of locations and natural areas.
We have wonderful overlaps!
I spent four summers in South Dakota (where I first encountered overt racism) in the Black Hills, working at Wind Cave NP. Each winter I moved back to the mountains above LA (ok, Pasadena) and spent most weekends in the CA desert. Those are the only places I've visited or live where my heart sang. I first traveled to the desert from Michigan, because it called to me. And it was on a family camping trip two years to Death Valley where I dressed male for a week and felt like clawing out of my skin. The desert spoke to me.
My brother lives outside of Denver, though I rarely get there. I'm glad you've found a safer and more affirming place. I'm 64 so your journey is speaking to me. I've never considered any gender affirming care very seriously due to my age, so you have me thinking!
Wow, we do have overlaps!
I grew up in the LA area: Lennox, Long Beach, and Manhattan Beach. When I was ten, my parents bought a ranch near Hinkley (Barstow area) where we raised rabbits commercially. That was decades before Erin Brokovich showed up. My dad was an Engineer who worked for NASA out at the Goldstone Deep Space Complex.
My parents divorced, and my dad moved to Denver. I traveled around with my mom for a couple of years, then moved back in with my dad. We moved from Arvada to Loveland, and he still lives there.
In South Dakota, one of my neighbors was Black Elk's granddaughter. She led the push to rename Harney Peak to Black Elk Peak. She told me the Lakota creation stories and invited me to go with her to Wind Cave to visit the sacred site. I think we went three or four times, then she moved away, and we lost touch. I wouldn't go back without her, or without an explicit invitation from the tribe.
I am 68 and started transition at 62. I, too, was worried that my age may be a factor. My Endocrinologist told me that age does not matter even for surgery. What matters is your overall health. If you are healthy, there is nothing to stop you. If you have health issues, then those must be taken into account. Unfortunately, as we age, more of those health issues arise. So it isn't the number of years you have survived. Just your state of health that matters.