I get my eyebrows done regularly, and have them arched nicely. I asked my esthetician to give them nice feminine arch. I still present as a male, and my brows don't look out of place. I just use mascara, and eyebrow gel as my only makeup, and it doesn't draw attention. MAC makes a nude eyeshadow that matches my skin tone perfectly, but it's never in stock. Clear mascara is a nice option, as is clear eye gloss, too,
Alana