That's the comment a friend made last night when we were out to dinner. At first I didn't think so and felt at least one person clocked us. Looking back, maybe not. But overall I think she was right. No one knew.
When I mentioned this to my electrologist this morning she made a comment about being yourself and not dressing in a way that attracts attention. I told her that as we approached the door of the packed restaurant, I found myself a bit worried. Just then an entire clan emerged, from little kids to grandparents. I made eye contact with several of them, even this little girl who just looked at me with an innocent smile. I smiled back. That was a sweet moment. Grandma and grandpa both looked at us as we waited at the door for the line of family members to end. They just smiled. And on it went. We were just two women out to dinner on a Sunday evening.
Two years ago I was totally convinced this would never happen. "I will never pass" I told myself over and over. When people disagreed, I thanked them for the encouragement, but still thought to myself, "It's not possible. I'll never be able to pull it off." But as we sat there in the restaurant, sharing a slice of Tiramisu, I thought, "It really is possible and it's happening right before my eyes." What a wonderful feeling.
Julie