Went out to lunch with m'colleagues to toast someone who is about to get married. The food was great, the drink was great, the company was great... until somebody pulled out their iPhone and started passing it around, showing off a photo of one of my male colleagues dressed as a fairy princess, which was taken at a social event a while ago.
Cue much transphobic joking and laughter amongst my usually awesome colleagues... about how comfortable he looked in a dress, how much the look suited him, how much the colour brought out his eyes, how someone should tell his wife, how he should hand in his man card, etc. etc. etc.
One - just
one - of my colleagues had the grace to look a little bit embarrassed that this was happening right in front of me.
Sigh. Even awesome colleagues can be douches sometimes.