Unhappy: referred to a therapist by my GP for anxiety. I assumed that she had read in the referral that I'm trans, but she hadn't. I outed myself to her thinking she knew, she didn't, so I outed myself for nothing and now that's going to be a thing she focusses on when I'm actually so over the transgender thing it's not even funny. I wanted to go in as a guy that needed help with his anxiety, not someone who needed help transitioning.
Happy: when I told her I was trans she went "um, ok, I'm confused...you...want to be a woman? Have you had surgeries?"
She then suggested I go to trans support groups and "get used to the idea of being outed." No thanks! I just started a new job where I am accepted 100% as male. Not "we'll use male pronouns and your male name because we respect you despite you being born a girl", I mean I was seen as a guy, period, no questions asked, no special medical conditions disclosed. Took me 2 years of HRT to get here and 5 years of torment, humiliation, and prostration. Not about to go back.