New here from Colorado

[Raven1989]

I recently joined. I am in the process of severing all ties and having to justify everthing. I have already done EVERYTHING to be a female. SSA wont change my gender marker. My drivers license and name are male.

[ShaunaNinjagirl]

What do you mean by severing all ties? I hope you still have family and friends to support you.

[V M]

Hi Raven 

Welcome to Susan's    Glad to have you here, hopefully you can find info. on getting your documentation sorted

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V M

[abd789]

Hello, what part of CO are you from?

I lived in Colorado Springs for quite a while in the 90s

[Jamie D]

Hi Raven.  I completely understand the desire to just get away.

I hope you will be able to build yourself a new life.

[Ms. OBrien CVT]

Hi Raven,

Welcome to our little family. Over 8320 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister.


Janet 

[Devlyn]

Hi Raven, glad you found us! I'm up near Boston. There's always room for new friends here, see you around. Hugs, Devlyn

[Nathine]

Welcome and I am concerned. You need friends and support for transition. If you have done everything ? you would have had SRS surgery. SSA will only change a gender marker for MTFs with a surgeon's letter stating so. That is their policy, backwards for a Federal agency, but part of Homeland security issues. If you have such a letter, then either speak to a supervisor, and tell them they are violating their own policy, or see a lawyer. We have a few people in Phoenix that are currently suing the SSA for gender discrimination.