The Official 'Do I pass?' topic (Ver 4.0 - in 3-D)

[Cassie 4 Ever!!!]

Got my hair cut again (finally), just wondering what you guys would say Not out yet to anyone but two best friends, so I still look very feminine.

Cant see much from the side hon, but if i was looking through pictures in an album and saw these, or searching the web (other than Susans or the likes) I never would not think you were female.

[Cassie 4 Ever!!!]

I'm new here.. thought I'd post to see if when I officially come out.. if I can pass as a guy. My mom finally let me cut my hair like a boy this past summer and I love it. My hairs a little messy in these pics sorry haha






 
@Freddie love the haircut and the clothes.. I think you pass. Your face is a little feminine yeah but your hair and clothes make you look like a guy imo

I don't know much about FTM transformations, but when I see your face, it seems to have a squareness about it that says male, it isn't screaming but T will def amplify that based on what I have seen in this thread in the past.

[nexusnick]

Everyone looks really fantastic

[Calder Smith]

I don't know much about FTM transformations, but when I see your face, it seems to have a squareness about it that says male, it isn't screaming but T will def amplify that based on what I have seen in this thread in the past.

Okay, thanks!

[samsj]

Sam, you look good, and if this is pre-T, im confident without a shodow of a doubt that you will be more than ok look wise for your face.

thanks @Ксениа !! my friends said that i manly enough since not on T yet. i want to practice and build a habbit like a man first. so, if i start T, i can be perfectly manly inside and outside. hehe i have one problem to start T. i must tell to my father. and.....i so nervous about it. i just want to tell him, not asking for permission.

there are my photos with a fake facial hair. hehe my friend made it for me and ask me to went to my date like that and my -make up artist- friend will give me a snack. haha and please, kindly follow my instagram : @abrisamcj

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[freddie]

@Freddie love the haircut and the clothes.. I think you pass. Your face is a little feminine yeah but your hair and clothes make you look like a guy imo

Thank you! Yes feminine features are annoying..

Btw, I think you pass completely. You look just like a boy in my class~

[freddie]

Cant see much from the side hon, but if i was looking through pictures in an album and saw these, or searching the web (other than Susans or the likes) I never would not think you were female.

Thank you so much. Yes I couldn't find any pictures from the front as I dont ever take them myself But thank you very much~

[Calder Smith]

Thank you! Yes feminine features are annoying..

Btw, I think you pass completely. You look just like a boy in my class~

Your welcome and thank you! I wasn't sure if I passed, my eyes are very feminine I've noticed. But thanks a lot!

[Cassie 4 Ever!!!]

thanks @Ксениа !! my friends said that i manly enough since not on T yet. i want to practice and build a habbit like a man first. so, if i start T, i can be perfectly manly inside and outside. hehe i have one problem to start T. i must tell to my father. and.....i so nervous about it. i just want to tell him, not asking for permission.

there are my photos with a fake facial hair. hehe my friend made it for me and ask me to went to my date like that and my -make up artist- friend will give me a snack. haha and please, kindly follow my instagram : @abrisamcj

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These B&W say Male to me hands down. I am not sure what your relationship with your Father is like so I cant tell you what is best for you, you must make that call....but I dont think going to your Father, with the mentality and the message I must do this and there is not a D*mn thing you can do about is a good idea. Sure, deep down, maybe that is what you think you need to do, but I hope you think about talking to him openly, explain that this is how you feel, and that you would like to see a therapist. The therapist will help a lot, and has helped me dearly. Please don't take this as me telling you what to do, just an idea. On a final note, you pass in these pictures before T, but keep in mind, there is more to passing than just looks.

[BGLW]

I'm still pre everything, and I don't always feel confident about my passing but I took some pics before and after school on a day that I felt pretty confident. I'm open to constructive criticism if anyone has it. xD

http://i1057.photobucket.com/albums/t384/shicaloaf/2014-01-08162733.jpg
http://i1057.photobucket.com/albums/t384/shicaloaf/2014-01-08162631.jpg
http://i1057.photobucket.com/albums/t384/shicaloaf/IMG_20140108_054405.jpg
http://i1057.photobucket.com/albums/t384/shicaloaf/IMG_20140108_054330.jpg

(Sorry about links, I didn't want to put amazingly huge photos in my post. XD)

[samsj]

These B&W say Male to me hands down. I am not sure what your relationship with your Father is like so I cant tell you what is best for you, you must make that call....but I dont think going to your Father, with the mentality and the message I must do this and there is not a D*mn thing you can do about is a good idea. Sure, deep down, maybe that is what you think you need to do, but I hope you think about talking to him openly, explain that this is how you feel, and that you would like to see a therapist. The therapist will help a lot, and has helped me dearly. Please don't take this as me telling you what to do, just an idea. On a final note, you pass in these pictures before T, but keep in mind, there is more to passing than just looks.

hey @Ксениа i already met my therapist. he gave me an advice to tell my father first before i have medichal check up and teraphy. yeah, more to passing. mind, attitude, legal identity, etc. btw you look woman-ly! when you started your transition?

[freddie]

I'm still pre everything, and I don't always feel confident about my passing but I took some pics before and after school on a day that I felt pretty confident. I'm open to constructive criticism if anyone has it. xD

I definitely think you pass, but as quite a young boy. Especially in the second pictures you look around 12/13.

[assorted_human]

I'm still pre everything, and I don't always feel confident about my passing but I took some pics before and after school on a day that I felt pretty confident. I'm open to constructive criticism if anyone has it. xD

I think you pass in the first two. My one hold back really is your hair could use a little something. Maybe just a little trim, your face looks like it'd work best with long hair though. So just a little off the bottom.
In the second two you look like a girl. I don't think you pass in a hat, that and it and your shirt being pink (or at least that's how it looks on my computer) don't really help.

[lilwesman]

Hi, friends!  I've been lurking here for well over two years, but finally am going to start T next month, so I'd thought I'd post a before photo here.  I just got a haircut today, so tell me buddies... DO I PASS? (I'll try add more photos later possibly, this is the only one available now )

https://twitter.com/lilwesman/status/423506939704643584/photo/1

[jeremysucks]

Hi, friends!  I've been lurking here for well over two years, but finally am going to start T next month, so I'd thought I'd post a before photo here.  I just got a haircut today, so tell me buddies... DO I PASS? (I'll try add more photos later possibly, this is the only one available now )

https://twitter.com/lilwesman/status/423506939704643584/photo/1

I think you totally pass! You look young, but A) there's nothing wrong with that and B) T will help
Congrats on starting T, and I really dig your haircut!

[BGLW]

Thanks for the opinions ^^ as far as everything looking pink, blame the camera on the phone and tablet I was using lol, I never have been good with indoor lighting. I've been trying to get a new phone case since I got the thing but soon I won't have the phone anymore so I won't worry. (the shirt and hat were actually orange rofl)

As far as the hat, it makes sense. I noticed it does tend to make my face look more effeminate. I'm gonna stop wearing hats so much for now. :p looks kinda like I need to revise my style of clothing, haha.

[Calder Smith]

I'm still pre everything, and I don't always feel confident about my passing but I took some pics before and after school on a day that I felt pretty confident. I'm open to constructive criticism if anyone has it. xD

http://i1057.photobucket.com/albums/t384/shicaloaf/2014-01-08162733.jpg
http://i1057.photobucket.com/albums/t384/shicaloaf/2014-01-08162631.jpg
http://i1057.photobucket.com/albums/t384/shicaloaf/IMG_20140108_054405.jpg
http://i1057.photobucket.com/albums/t384/shicaloaf/IMG_20140108_054330.jpg

(Sorry about links, I didn't want to put amazingly huge photos in my post. XD)

I think you pass. You look like you could be a boy from my school.

[NathanielM]

I've been really uncomfortable with myself lately even though people keep saying I do pass and I tend to pass (if I keep my mouth shut :p)to strangers. So I thought I'd put some pictures up here. Do you guys have any tips to pass better? Am I paranoid? And what age do I pass as if I pass?
http://i787.photobucket.com/albums/yy160/nathan_maertens/IMG_0637_zpsb9f39119.jpg
http://i787.photobucket.com/albums/yy160/nathan_maertens/IMG_0635_zps18a5dba6.jpg
http://i787.photobucket.com/albums/yy160/nathan_maertens/IMG_063220x30_zpsfaad5ed6.jpg

[Shantel]

I've been really uncomfortable with myself lately even though people keep saying I do pass and I tend to pass (if I keep my mouth shut :p)to strangers. So I thought I'd put some pictures up here. Do you guys have any tips to pass better? Am I paranoid? And what age do I pass as if I pass?
http://i787.photobucket.com/albums/yy160/nathan_maertens/IMG_0637_zpsb9f39119.jpg
http://i787.photobucket.com/albums/yy160/nathan_maertens/IMG_0635_zps18a5dba6.jpg
http://i787.photobucket.com/albums/yy160/nathan_maertens/IMG_063220x30_zpsfaad5ed6.jpg

Looks wise you pass just fine as a handsome young man, good photos!

[Adam (birkin)]

I think you pass too, Nathan. I'm inclined to say I'd read you as about 17 or 18.