How long did it take some of you wonderful ladies to notice muscle changes? Do they visibly get smaller over time, or is it just strength that changes? I've always had a basic female shape but with all the T i was given, and all the working out I used to do, I have very large muscles, particularly calves and upper arms. With some of the fat redistribution I've had over the last 6 months on HRT, my thighs look a bit chubby now but definitely in the right way, but my upper arms and calves look huge. I'm heading over 30 now, is muscle size even something I can expect to change? God, I sound so vain worrying about it, but it seriously depresses me. HRT has also given me a tummy which I'm sure I can work off, but I don't want to work out and risk building muscle before I know that my muscles will get smaller from the hormones, because I don't want to get any bigger.
On a positive note for anyone 30+, over the past week, I've been called "lady" by a man, and "maam" by two different women, all while presenting as male. In one case, I even had a bit of lip stubble because I didn't wax before going out, and as I was presenting as a male because I'm not out to everyone yet. So if you're thinking of transitioning and you're 30+, do it.
XO everyone