I ended up with my name as Anastasia due to a late internet session. I was very tired, out of it and a site wanted my femme name. I used Anastaia, just seemed right. Years later, after my daughter was born, and we had only picked out a girls name, (somehow, I knew that was all we needed), I asked my mom what my name would have been if I had been a girl. She told me Anastasia, after my great grand-mother (b.1877, d.1980). I have always thought it strange that I used the name I would have had if I had been born correctly as a girl.