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do you like wearing a bra

Started by evecrook, December 04, 2013, 02:10:20 PM

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stephaniec

Quote from: JustEmily on January 19, 2014, 01:17:22 PM
I like that it keeps my chest still to a point and that it provides extra perk and shape.  Although it has lost its magical feeling most days, I still like a pretty one and it makes me feel nice to match under my clothes.
yea, that extra perk is nice
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Violet Bloom

Quote from: stephaniec on January 19, 2014, 12:23:26 PM
so violet about what time you think those pictures will be posted

  Uh, pictures?  What pictures?  :icon_suspicious:

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Kyra553

Quote from: Violet Bloom on January 19, 2014, 05:28:35 PM
  Uh, pictures?  What pictures?  :icon_suspicious:

Caught in the act  >:-)


I've always had slight moobs growing up from being abit fat. I don't wear a bra day to day, so I still enjoy the comforts of something new when I do now and then.  ;D  A bra has always been that one extra thing that I couldn't openly wear as a boy. The one thing that says look I'm a girl and hear me roar.  ;)  Its good to be who I am.  :icon_lips:
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stephaniec

Quote from: Natallie553 on January 19, 2014, 08:17:37 PM
Caught in the act  >:-)


I've always had slight moobs growing up from being abit fat. I don't wear a bra day to day, so I still enjoy the comforts of something new when I do now and then.  ;D  A bra has always been that one extra thing that I couldn't openly wear as a boy. The one thing that says look I'm a girl and hear me roar.  ;)  Its good to be who I am.  :icon_lips:
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Stella Stanhope

Personally myself, I find bras to be beautiful things to wear, if you buy ones with pretty or elegant patterns on them. I enjoy adorning my body with them.

However, I have my reservations about the prospect of developing boobs when on HRT, as they seem like a pain-in-the-arse when it comes to day-to-day issues. And bra straps can be really irritating over long periods. So I may end up hating them I guess, despite how beautiful they can be and make you feel. Boobs and bras seem to be much fun to have and wear when your by yourself or with a lover, and a bloody nuisance at all other times.

For me - the prospect of developing boobs would be a sort of "necessary evil" in the pursuit of becoming more female, perhaps in the same way that the risk of male pattern baldness might be seen as a necessary evil in the pursuit of becoming male. You can't love everything about becoming your target gender I guess. Rough with the smooth and all that jazz.
There are no more barriers to cross... But even after admitting this, there is no catharsis... I gain no deeper knowledge of myself. No new knowledge can be extracted from my telling. This confession has meant nothing.

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Calder Smith

Sorry for stepping into the girls board but as a bio female, I've always hated wearing them.
Manchester United diehard fan.
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stephaniec

Quote from: Mr Hockey on January 20, 2014, 10:24:11 AM
Sorry for stepping into the girls board but as a bio female, I've always hated wearing them.
no need to be sorry , your very welcome  here
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saraharmstrong

Quote from: "I'm Stella Stanhope, and that's why I drink". on January 20, 2014, 08:59:35 AM
Personally myself, I find bras to be beautiful things to wear, if you buy ones with pretty or elegant patterns on them. I enjoy adorning my body with them.

However, I have my reservations about the prospect of developing boobs when on HRT, as they seem like a pain-in-the-arse when it comes to day-to-day issues. And bra straps can be really irritating over long periods. So I may end up hating them I guess, despite how beautiful they can be and make you feel. Boobs and bras seem to be much fun to have and wear when your by yourself or with a lover, and a bloody nuisance at all other times.


Yes, I know what you mean.  When I firstly started to wear a bra, I found it very uncomfortable and the straps made it too tight as I did not have a boob, but only with a pad.  I remember that I got my first pair of bra in M&S and I was not dressed en femme.  A young lady was very surprised when I asked her for a size.  However, she was supportive and helpful.  You can buy multiway bra as the straps can be removable and you can wear it with dresses.  Where do you normally shop for clothing?
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stephaniec

I found my most comfortable bra at a clearance sale at target
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Eva Marie

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Quote from: Violet Bloom on January 19, 2014, 10:48:02 AM
  Even a mediocre hacker can turn your camera on remotely... :-\

Which is why I keep a strip of black tape over mine lol....

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FionaG

Seeing as I'm still using forms and try to be a full-time girl, I really have little choice in wearing a bra. It has made it less way to enjoy. It does make me appreciate my more comfortable bras more. I also just found a shirt with a built in bra capable of wrangling my forms, and enjoy the feeling of bralessness it gives me.

I can hardly wait for the day where I don't need a bra just to have my feminine form.
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Jennygirl

less and less and less and less

same with heels... less and less

less is more ;)
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stephaniec

Quote from: Jennygirl on January 21, 2014, 01:58:41 PM
less and less and less and less

same with heels... less and less

less is more ;)
that's what I need to do is go for the less,less
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kellibra

i am surprised there are so many 'negative' comments about wearing a bra. yes they can be annoying after a while for many reasons but there is little else that says "woman" more than a bra. it is badge of courage in the beginning for us and should remain a symbol of pride afterwards. i am like an excited schoolgirl wondering in the morning which bra i will wear today.
same is true for hose. yes they can be annoying too but after years of wearing them, i still find them irresistibly feminine on the right girl. just wanted to restore a bit of balance here...
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stephaniec

Quote from: kellibra on January 22, 2014, 09:46:00 AM
i am surprised there are so many 'negative' comments about wearing a bra. yes they can be annoying after a while for many reasons but there is little else that says "woman" more than a bra. it is badge of courage in the beginning for us and should remain a symbol of pride afterwards. i am like an excited schoolgirl wondering in the morning which bra i will wear today.
same is true for hose. yes they can be annoying too but after years of wearing them, i still find them irresistibly feminine on the right girl. just wanted to restore a bit of balance here...
I love bras , I was talking less material.
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Jennygirl

Quote from: kellibra on January 22, 2014, 09:46:00 AM
i am surprised there are so many 'negative' comments about wearing a bra. yes they can be annoying after a while for many reasons but there is little else that says "woman" more than a bra. it is badge of courage in the beginning for us and should remain a symbol of pride afterwards. i am like an excited schoolgirl wondering in the morning which bra i will wear today.
same is true for hose. yes they can be annoying too but after years of wearing them, i still find them irresistibly feminine on the right girl. just wanted to restore a bit of balance here...

Oh don't worry and don't get me wrong... If I would have answered this question 6 months ago when I was not quite in the less is more stage, all you would have heard from me is more more more ;)

I think it absolutely makes sense that early on people gravitate towards anything they can do to feel more feminine. I was definitely in that boat for what seemed like a very long time. It feels great! That first day out wearing a bra has to be one of the best feelings ever.

After a while though (as other parts of presentation kind of relaxed and I grew into the full time woman role), the bras became much less important to passing or satisfying the gender craving I was so accustomed to having.

The second puberty thing is very true indeed. Even some of the social aspects, which is super neat :)
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gn7

I hate wearing bras! When I got my breast done I thought that was the end of push-ups and bras but nope. Now with implants I still wear push ups. They dig into my skin but the cleavage I get is worth it!
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Nicolette

No, but I need the support..and cleavage. Give it a few years for the novelty to wear off.
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kellibra

you are probably right but i hope this day never comes...
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Jenna Marie

Yeah, it was a symbol of pride for a while, but the novelty did wear off. :) I don't mind, really; it's a sign that living as a woman has become just normal, which was my goal.
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