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Started by Brandon, January 05, 2014, 03:14:50 AM

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Simon

Well, if penetration is that important to you I would go with a phalloplasty. There are photos of one black guy on Dr Crane's site who requested a large organ...he got what he asked for. Even my wife looked at it and said "nope, too big", lol. There are options and the cool thing is as transmen we can influence what size we have if we choose that surgery.

You limit yourself man. I know if you look at the options out there and find that you can have a larger penis then you'll jump on something else you don't like (can't make babies/have natural erections). You have soooo far to go with all of this and you're in the baby stages. Take it a day at a time, a step at a time, because if you constantly obsess about the big picture you are going to drive yourself neurotic about all of this.
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Alexthecat

If your not allowed T until 18 and then you have to be a year on T for the surgery anyways then you are worrying about this way to early. Plus also coming up with the money unless you are moving to a country that pays for it for you. You got a long time, don't sweat your small stuff.

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wheat thins are delicious

Quote from: Alexthecat on January 05, 2014, 01:23:53 PM
and then you have to be a year on T for the surgery

Most docs want you to be on T two years before performing bottom surgery.


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Brandon

Quote from: Alexthecat on January 05, 2014, 01:23:53 PM
If your not allowed T until 18 and then you have to be a year on T for the surgery anyways then you are worrying about this way to early. Plus also coming up with the money unless you are moving to a country that pays for it for you. You got a long time, don't sweat your small stuff.


I know this already, But depending on if I move with my dad which I plan on, He will let start T before 18 I'm not to far from it but I'm not gonna post my age, so your point?? And their are prosthetics realistic ones
keep working hard and you can get anything you want.    -Aaliyah
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LordKAT

Realistic prosthetics are expensive and need regular replacement.

Some phallo surgeries are very realistic, but again expensive. Meta has it's advantages but size isn't one of them. No matter what route you take, it is expensive and not the most satisfactory. We just have to do the best we can with what we have/get. Acceptance of that is the only way to not have the inadequacies overwhelm you.
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Brandon

Quote from: LordKAT on January 05, 2014, 05:27:20 PM
Realistic prosthetics are expensive and need regular replacement.

Some phallo surgeries are very realistic, but again expensive. Meta has it's advantages but size isn't one of them. No matter what route you take, it is expensive and not the most satisfactory. We just have to do the best we can with what we have/get. Acceptance of that is the only way to not have the inadequacies overwhelm you.


I know all of this again I hav researched everything, I will get the money that's not a problem, The problem is, That I'm young and pretty sure none of you guys just was easily able to accept that, Its not easy at all
keep working hard and you can get anything you want.    -Aaliyah
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Simon

Brandon, it's never easy regardless of age. We all dream of the body we want, but medical science just isn't there...yet. Maybe by the time you get to the point where you're ready to have bottom surgery and you have 50 grand or more to drop on a penis the options will be better. Just hold onto hope and keep accomplishing your goals on that path.
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LordKAT

Quote from: Brandon on January 05, 2014, 05:34:07 PM

I know all of this again I hav researched everything, I will get the money that's not a problem, The problem is, That I'm young and pretty sure none of you guys just was easily able to accept that, Its not easy at all

You are right isn't easy. Just letting you know that you aren't the only one who feels this way but some have learned how to deal with it. No need to get defensive about it.
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Brandon

Quote from: LordKAT on January 05, 2014, 05:49:00 PM
You are right isn't easy. Just letting you know that you aren't the only one who feels this way but some have learned how to deal with it. No need to get defensive about it.


I'm not being defensive I'm just saying word that better instead of saying you know just accept say eventually your gonnahave to accept it, Because as you already know it's not easy especially at my age, When I'm around bio guys all the time
keep working hard and you can get anything you want.    -Aaliyah
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Simon

Quote from: Brandon on January 05, 2014, 05:54:13 PM

I'm not being defensive I'm just saying word that better instead of saying you know just accept say eventually your gonnahave to accept it, Because as you already know it's not easy especially at my age, When I'm around bio guys all the time

I don't think you're being defensive. You just have a certain brashness that comes through via text. We are ALL around cis guys constantly. No matter if it is work or school. The thing we're trying to tell you is it is hard on all of us. We just accept that there are only a few ways we have to remedy the situation for ourselves. What good will it do to dwell on things that can't be right now? It'll only make you feel worse.
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Chaos

HAHA! Put any woman in front of me and I 100 percent guarantee they won't be comparing any anything to anything ;) sorry man but those who complain about size,have gotten ahold of some crappy men (sklill wise) I don't need to be a horse to know what I can do and I'm beyond confident in my skill and that's all I need.such a shame that more men can't learn about a womans body and only care to please them.doing so opens a whole need world of pleasure and then they wonder why they get cheated on or something lmfao.meh I commented to say I know for a fact it doesn't matter IF you know what the hell your doing but I guess some need large mass because they can't otherwise.just don't let it destory your self esteem alright?
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CursedFireDean

Quote from: Brandon on January 05, 2014, 05:54:13 PM

I'm not being defensive I'm just saying word that better instead of saying you know just accept say eventually your gonna have to accept it, Because as you already know it's not easy especially at my age, When I'm around bio guys all the time
From what I've gathered from your posts, you and I are no more than several months different in age, and I've accepted that with technology how it is now, I may never get bottom surgery since the surgeries aren't quite what I want. It certainly was not easy for me to accept that, and sometimes I do get extremely upset about it from time to time. Age is really not an excuse here.

As others mentioned, since we're so young, we do have hope for improved surgeries. Try to remember that. It's always so uplifting for me when I remember that Dr. Atala has been able to grow fully functioning penises and graft them onto rabbits, and a large percentage of those rabbits were impregnating females with the grown penises. There's another doctor (I forgot his name) who has discovered that there's a single gene stopping ovaries from making testosterone, and they're working on making that discovery allow for ovaries to also create sperm. Add together the work of those two scientists and it is possible within our lifetime that we can have penises of whatever size we want that can get erect on their own and even make a woman pregnant. Some of the other guys aren't lucky enough to have hope to see this within their lifetimes, but we can. It may not be there yet and it sucks that we'll have to wait, but improvements are definitely in the nearish future. Try and remember that.





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Brandon

Quote from: Chaos on January 05, 2014, 06:54:58 PM
HAHA! Put any woman in front of me and I 100 percent guarantee they won't be comparing any anything to anything ;) sorry man but those who complain about size,have gotten ahold of some crappy men (sklill wise) I don't need to be a horse to know what I can do and I'm beyond confident in my skill and that's all I need.such a shame that more men can't learn about a womans body and only care to please them.doing so opens a whole need world of pleasure and then they wonder why they get cheated on or something lmfao.meh I commented to say I know for a fact it doesn't matter IF you know what the hell your doing but I guess some need large mass because they can't otherwise.just don't let it destory your self esteem alright?

You right
keep working hard and you can get anything you want.    -Aaliyah
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Brandon

Quote from: CursedFireDean on January 05, 2014, 07:36:51 PM
From what I've gathered from your posts, you and I are no more than several months different in age, and I've accepted that with technology how it is now, I may never get bottom surgery since the surgeries aren't quite what I want. It certainly was not easy for me to accept that, and sometimes I do get extremely upset about it from time to time. Age is really not an excuse here.

As others mentioned, since we're so young, we do have hope for improved surgeries. Try to remember that. It's always so uplifting for me when I remember that Dr. Atala has been able to grow fully functioning penises and graft them onto rabbits, and a large percentage of those rabbits were impregnating females with the grown penises. There's another doctor (I forgot his name) who has discovered that there's a single gene stopping ovaries from making testosterone, and they're working on making that discovery allow for ovaries to also create sperm. Add together the work of those two scientists and it is possible within our lifetime that we can have penises of whatever size we want that can get erect on their own and even make a woman pregnant. Some of the other guys aren't lucky enough to have hope to see this within their lifetimes, but we can. It may not be there yet and it sucks that we'll have to wait, but improvements are definitely in the nearish future. Try and remember that.


Were definately close
keep working hard and you can get anything you want.    -Aaliyah
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Sir Wafflinton

Quote from: geek on January 05, 2014, 06:32:22 AM
Sir Wafflinton is clearly racist against people with small dicks

You're right, there is nothing worse than someone with a small dick... *looks in pants* ... OH GOD MY LIFE IS A LIE!  :P

Quote from: Brandon on January 05, 2014, 12:03:48 PM
I didn't say it was a race thing but the chart that Jamie D put up clearly proves it African Americans do tend to be larger

How can "African Americans have larger penises" not be a race thing ??? Anyway, I was talking directly about the information that the graph was based on. Basically someone just took a whole lot of information that was made up and graphed it and a few years later someone posted that graph on a Trans* forum so everyone can feel sad about having small dicks.

Quote from: Brandon on January 05, 2014, 12:08:28 PM
I want her to feel me is what some of you guys aren't getting

Seconded the guy above, get a phallo. You will be able to have penetrative sex and there have been massive improvements in skin grafts and are now using skin "mesh" meaning they harvest from a smaller area. I don't know if this can be applied to the phalloplasty but soon enough they will be able to grow you your own skin and use that, and that's even if their aren't improvements in other areas. I am guessing the graft scar isn't the biggest thing for you but it is just one way these procedures are improving (see CursedFireDean's response).


Also, someone else mentioned micropenis. Basically a micropenis is what most guys get if the have a meta and it is the penis you grow yourself from testosterone (although I have heard of some very lucky guys who actually grow enough to get out of this range and into the "normal" range but that is not something you should count on as it is uncommon). It is also, as mentioned a medical condition affecting cis men. It is defined as an erect penis more than 2.5 standard deviations below the mean (that is, one that is not longer than 3 inches). 0.6% of men have this condition. That is a massive number medically speaking.

As a simplified demonstration, excluding myself my last high school had about 1200 students, half of whom (600) were male. 600*0.6/100 (the number of males*the frequency of the condition per every hundred people). 600*0.6/100 = 3.6 which rounds up to 4. At my last high school there were 4 other guys who were going to end up with dicks just as small as I will and that is excluding all the intersex boys/ boys with other genital differences (who don't qualify as having a micropenis even if they are in the length range).

Not everyone is a porn star, not every guy is capable of penetrative sex, not every guy produces sperm, we are both young and will see technology change in our lifetimes so we won't have to live with all these things forever.


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Jamie D

Quote from: Sir Wafflinton on January 05, 2014, 11:44:35 PM

How can "African Americans have larger penises" not be a race thing ??? Anyway, I was talking directly about the information that the graph was based on. Basically someone just took a whole lot of information that was made up and graphed it and a few years later someone posted that graph on a Trans* forum so everyone can feel sad about having small dicks.


Sir Wafflinton, the data are the data.  You can draw from it whatever you want, or do not want.  There is nothing inherently prejudiced or racist about it.

In terms of scientific study, you are not likely to find one done today, based on race, because the concept of race is rather undefined.  Failing to find solid scientific evidence, we fall back on "expert" observation.

Here is one such testimonial: "My conclusions, I guess, can be based on my observations clinically," says Dr. Robert Stubbs, a Canadian penis-enhancement surgeon. "I think there is definitely a racial difference, and at this point – and I'm quite prepared to be proven wrong – there are three sizes: black, white and yellow (Asian), in descending order."

And another: "Anthropological studies from the past 100 years have really documented that, on average, penis size of east Asian males are smaller than western European and North American males," states Dr. Robert Francoeur, editor of the The International Encyclopedia of Sexuality. "And African males, on average, have a larger penis size."

On the opposite side of the argument, Toronto-based physician, Dr. Jerald Bain, who treats men with reproductive disorders, thinks there isn't yet an answer he's satisfied with. "But I can tell you from my own personal experience in seeing hundreds and hundreds of men – and I have the added advantage of working in Toronto, a very international city – that there is no difference from one ethnic origin to another."

Interestingly, Bain makes this observation: "We measured [men's] height and found that penis size was related to shoe size – but only insofar as it related to the general size of the man," explains Bain. Although the statistical relationship was weak, it was there, and taller men tend to have larger appendages of all sorts, including the penis.

Let me add my own experience.  From the time I was in seventh grade, we showered after taking our physical education class, or if we participated in school sports.  I have seen lots of naked natal men.  Thousands.  I would agree with the Bain observation on stature and Stubbs observations about a distribution according to race/ethnicity.  In my own experience, somewhat more than a weak statistical relationship.

My post was no more intended to make anyone fell bad about themselves, than would one talking about options for breast enhancement in MtFs.  Brandon wants to have a functional, natal male-like penis.  More power to him.  He wants to meet his own perceived cultural norms.  This is no more racist or demeaning than an MtF wanting DDD-cup boobs.  It is about the individual's self-image, and I will respect his.


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geek

I think the issue lies with what's possible and what's not, if an MTF wants to have triple D boobs, she can save up and have the surgery to do so, wanting a functioning natal dick isn't a realistic option, yes, it sucks, but crying about it doesn't make it happen, we either learn to accept what we have, or have surgery to correct it as best we can, or we wait for medical advancement




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Jamie D

Quote from: geek on January 06, 2014, 01:33:49 AM
I think the issue lies with what's possible and what's not, if an MTF wants to have triple D boobs, she can save up and have the surgery to do so, wanting a functioning natal dick isn't a realistic option, yes, it sucks, but crying about it doesn't make it happen, we either learn to accept what we have, or have surgery to correct it as best we can, or we wait for medical advancement

Those are all goods points, Harry.  But those triple-Ds are likely to be based on saline or silicone.  It is a case of esthetics.  Similarly with phalloplasty, at this time.

I like to think that medical science can make progress to help us all in the near future.
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Jamie D

Don't be sad.

If you look at the progress medical science has made, in relation to the care and treatment of transpeople, you have to be hopeful.

80 years ago there were no hormones and no surgeries (except castration for the Mtf/eunuch).

How far along has FtM bottom surgery come in, say, the last 20 years?  A long way.
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